Is it alarming for a 16 year old girl to have never gone out with anyone?

Actually I think most people would respect that. There comes a time where you have to put yourself out there and get to know people or else before you know it you'll be getting old without any relationship experience. It's normal I presume just knowing from first hand experience.

I didn't get my girlfriend until I was 14 and we are each others first.We even plan on staying together,etc.Just remember to start relationships off with basic friendship or else the outcome might turn out bad.

No you are no loser. I'm a fine example. I was virgin until I finally felt in love with someone I can connect with when I was 23. Trust me, it was worth the wait. What's the rush? For her though.. being from South America, that's another story!

Well if you're not ready then its not alarming. I mean I have a friend that's 18 and he's still a virgin.

Don't feel bad, cause I'm the same way... Tons of guy friends, totally ready for a boyfriend, but nothing yet, and I'm 16. Besides I'm sure it will be a good thing, eventually.

Hey, that's ok.

I mean wouldn't you rather have a lifelong friend than a potential short time boyfriend?

But, you're not the only one with that issue. You're just waiting for the right person to come along. Its ok.