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Does it seem weird for a white guy to go out with a black girl?

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love2laugh1636 (Age:Under 18)     When: 10 months ago
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Ok so I'm kinda interested in a white guy...well really interested in him. But the thing is there's the whole cultural barrier thing. And it's not like I'm a light skinned black girl. I 'm like in the middle...like Oprah. Plus I'm not like exactly ghetto or anything. I'm pretty "civilized" and totally not rude. I guess you can say that in a "ghetto" person's opinion I act pretty white. But anyway I wanna know if this guy that I like would not ask me out because of my color. Do guys really take into account a girls ethnicity? Is it like seriously considered as a big deal? And what do other people think about it?

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lacon22s
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lacon22s (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
im a white dude and black women are crazy sexy, but he might be a little intimidated so I'd try to give him some REALLY obvious signs your feelin him because sometimes its hard to get the hint.
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JamesRM
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JamesRM (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Girl I'm a white guy that been with a lot of black girls its cool. If your into him and he's into you wot you waiting 4. that's y people think there's a problem with interracial dating because they are thinking wot people will say. the more people cross that "barrier" the more common it will be. the only reason y people are ok with black guys and white girls is because they is so many people doing it. so wot can you say? ( interracial dating is cool, unless 1 of you are racist)
GIRL IF YOU LIKE HIM GO 4 IT !
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dohcrwd
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Sister, .

go for it, this is 2008 not 1808. I date outside asian. no worries go for it
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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
Na nothings wrong with it... I have a problem with black guys going out with white girls though.
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ALWAYSclassy Lol whats the difference? - 10 months ago
Answerer Its just usaully black guys use the white girls for sex and that's why - 10 months ago
kazine Oh yeah, this whole bullshit about them coming and "stealing your women".

Racist f***. - 4 months ago
Answerer Ain't nobody racist... just got my own opinions. Obviously you don't respect that because you have a one track selfish mind. That's cool. - 4 months ago
lolli Why? - A month ago

Konvicts
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Konvicts (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
It seems perfectly fine.Anyone who isn't ok with interracial dating needs some help.I'm more of a dark skinned guy and I've been with a Caucasian ethnicity girl for a little over a year now.The only people who would mind it are the racists and people who seriously need to get a life because color shouldn't matter.

Of course I think when your over 18+ people tend to not really care,I think the only ages who would have problems with it are immature teens and that is just a small handful of them.If that guy you like refuses you because of your color then you deserve better,someone who cares about personality not skin type and someone who would love you as a person.Overall I think guys would tend to care less about that kind of thing,just talk with him and see how it goes.Start a friendship and get to know where he stands on the whole color thing.
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shygurl02
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shygurl02 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
Ok, well I'm going through the same thing now. Except I'm a light skinned female. I know exactly what you mean. Look out in what he says and how he acts. They usually won't say it out right. Plus not cool to ask because it makes a real awkward moment. Chill, and play it cool. In due time his intentions will come out. If not, he may need that little push, like my guy did, then bring it up casually. Nothing is wrong with a black guy white girl or vice versa either, leave that to the ignorant. Stay strong girl.
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 10 months ago
It's perfectly fine because your both human it's just a few shades different in color. and it's not like your [[ghetto slutty.]] Go for it!!!!! People are people regardless of race and dating is dating! But yea some guys do count ethnicity just because of what their parents told them. ask him through someone else and if he says no tell him that person was joking!!!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
I say go for it no matter what if he likes you too he won't care about the difference. It seriously is not a big deal and anyone who has a problem with it shouldn't... no offense to those people but if two different interacial people like each other there is nothing anyone can do to stop it.
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Well it depends on the culture of where you live, whether he cares about race, and if he would listen to his friends and/or family if THEY think race is an issue.

I'm a medium-skinned black girl too and I've dated out of my race a few times. Some guys care about race, some don't. Then you have guys who will mess around with a black girl but only will officially date a white girl - you don't want that.

Just get to know him better like you would anyone else to feel him out.
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