I work with a guy that seems extremely interested in me, we're both single parents (I haven't dated much a couple of years and I'm ready), but the thing is, he'll swing by my desk and chat - he's given me some really great compliments - not superficial compliments, but they're deeper.
He's also asked other coworkers about me and has even shared a small amount of his personal life with me and says that I'll learn more about him. The thing is, I'm definitely interested, even if it turns into nothing more than friendship, outside of work. How do I go about doing this? Should I take things extremely slow and wait for him to simply ask me out or should I suggest something? Or should I even be considering this with a coworker?!
sexwiseman
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
If you don't care about the office gossip then it's no big deal dating a colleague. Is a personal preference, but there are some workplaces that discourage 'coworker' romance, while other places encourage it. The fact that he hasn't asked you out yet, suggests that maybe he is a bit insecure about doing it. Have you dropped a hint that you're free to date, or that maybe you're not busy on the weekend and you would like to go out? From previous experience I have had women that kind of drop the hint by asking me about my weekend plans, and then of course I ask about theirs, and their reply was something like...'oh, I wish I could go out, but it seems people are busy..' From there I would ask them out, but I took their reply as a green light that they were 'available'; I realized when girls are not interested, they flatly tell you things like, 'I'm busy every day...' Anyway, maybe you could drop a hint like that, if you haven't done so already....
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