My boyfriend is hung up on my past. Well lately and especially yesterday we had been doing really, realy great, he even told me he loved me so much and that he was such a fool sometimes because of my past, and that I was the most amazing girlfriend and that he didn't want to lose me and that he was sorry for being so stupid sometimes.
Well, today we were talking in the same vein over IM. He suddenly remembered though about a guy who used to have a crush on me and who also once forced a kiss on me. But I forgave him and continued the friendship until my boyfriend's jealousy kicked in. My boyfriend began getting jealous and I cut contact with all the guys who I was friends with or liked or kissed before him.
He knew a couple of them, because it's a small town. Well the thing is I told him stuff about them, but I didn't tell him everything straight away, so he doesn't trust me a lot because I kept some stuff to myself (about the past).
Well today he started inquiring info about some gift the friend who once forced a kiss on me had given me. I started answering and told him I got rid of that stuff before he and I had issues. Then he said he didn't believe me and told me that his former crush (the bitch still flirts shamelessly with him!) had brought him a gift and that he intended on keeping it.
Well. I stormed off my house and went to his place. He didn't want to listen to me so I started crying. He said he was in a hurry going over some friend's house and I told him I needed to talk. he kicked me out and I followed him, still crying. Now he's all upset because he says I embarrassed him. He even threatened to dump me foerever if I didn't leave in 3 seconds. And earlier today he said I was the love of his life and wanted to marry me!
But I'm very hurt because one he didn't want to listem, two, he seems to protect her because it's not the first time he hides recent things related to her (going to visit her behind my back late at night), three he always treats me like I'm the one who lies and that I'm the one who's not trustworthy!
Am I really to blame if I cried a bit in public? He's angry at me because I didn't want to shut up and talk later but I mean, how was I supposed not to want to talk about it immediately if he gets all mad because I've hidden things from the PAST, but he keeps things from me that heppened last week? And how am I supposed to believe that he loves me and all his apologies if he's not willing to talk about my feelings when he's hurt me and knows it? And that he's so sorry for mistreating me if he still gets hung up over the past, a past when I didn't even know him?!
I seriously don't understand him. I feel like I'm going crazy trying to figure all this out!
dudet dumb this guy...he's selfish, unemotional and is OBVIOUSLY not filling your needs, get rid of him, and most importantly get over him, that will make him feel sorry. And DON'T get back with him when he comes crawling to you because he will.
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stop playing games. My suggestion is sit down one day, and let him ask you anything.ANYTHING. and you ask him ANYTHING aswell. Then you discuss the grounds who to talk to, etc. Have clear rules. Then see what happens, from what you have mentioned, he seems bothered because he is doing the dirt behind your back.Most effective form of defence is attack. So like what I said in the begining have a sit down, have all the questions. and agree never to bring it up again.
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