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Y do you guys do this?

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prettyNpink (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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why do you all give girls mixed signals? I meen come onnn wuts the deal?


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MaxPrime
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MaxPrime      When: More than a year ago
look BOTH sexes do this so you (and I) are going have to deal with it anyway. Keep moving forward.
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invertedskiking
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invertedskiking      When: More than a year ago
Psh we give you mixed signals? Girls give guys an even screwed up signal. Ill put it this way, guys are an on/off switch, and girls are a bunch of dials like a radio.
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
haha it goes both ways, trust me. and playing mind games are the worst.
why do we do it? I really don't know, I try not to, but some girls like the chase, and mixed signals are part of the chase.
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Sometimes we just aren't sure ourselves, some guys are into games, there's a lot of different reasons.I hope this helps.
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recon1234
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recon1234      When: More than a year ago
LOL I honestly think girls send more mixed signals.they flirt and stuff when you ask them out.boom there's rejections. I think you haven't really learn much about guys.before you assume a guy wants to be your bf, or assume likes you.you should first talk and ask simple questions that will let you know if he has something going for you.

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lizzieforever01 Some girls give rejections like my best friend does because she flirts with guys and stuff then her friends notice and tell her more about the guy and weather he's good for her or not and she usually believes her friends so she doesn't go out with them - More than a year ago

gotc147
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gotc147      When: More than a year ago
Simple eye contact isn't a sign that a guy likes you.

Signs that a guy likes you:
He teases you
Says "bless you" when you sneeze
stares at you (usually out of the corner of his eye)
Initiates conversation with you
Listens when you speak and adds his own two cents
Picks things that you drop up
I could go on.

Signs he does NOT like you:
Gives you one word answeres
Lets you do all the talking
Ignores you completely
There are others but I'm kinda tired.
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confidenceishot Ok if a guy shows all of the "liking" signs and you reciprocate them, why will he not do a dang thing about it?? That's where I get confused. - More than a year ago
Answerer Probably building up the guts to do something about it. Men hate rejection more than anything. - More than a year ago
Answerer What do you mean put them all together? You mean show all signs of liking you and not liking you? - More than a year ago
Answerer Two possibilities. One, he's in a very bad mood on the times he gives the "don't like" signs. Or two, he just sees you as a friend.

It's very rare to find a guy who will play head games. - More than a year ago
confused1081 You make a good point but what if the guy does a nice mix of both of those liking and not liking signs? More of the not liking when you've ticked him off, I might add. - More than a year ago
Answerer Depends on how badly you ticked him off. If you just said something that he didn't share the same opinion about and felt very strongly in his own opinion, then he'll be pissed for a little while but will eventually let it go.

If you had a venting session on his car, then any feelings he might've had plummetted faster than the value of his vehicle. - More than a year ago
barn-babe Ok I agree with you but why the treasing. One of my guy friends does this all the time he teases me about what my T-Shirts say like one says " And the Cowgirl Has Spoken" I say something and he say and the cowgirl has spoken. and teases me about lots of other stupid shit like that. He drives me crazy. I don't know if he is being mean or being playful. - More than a year ago
Answerer To be 100% honest, I'm not entirely sure.

Women these days seem to be attracted to guys who are cocky and jerks, teasing you would give off the idea that he is like that.

Another reason could be that it shows off his sense of humor, or it could be a very bad way of showing confidence, like I said, I'm not sure.

If he's being playful about it and not hurtful (pay very close attention to his tone and his facial expression), then he likes you, maybe only as a friend, but maybe more. - More than a year ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Define and give examples of the mixed signals you're talking about.
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sammyangel9991 She means when a guy acts interested sometimes and unintereseted others. like if a guy makes eye contact with a girl on monday but not tuesday etc. - More than a year ago
Answerer Those aren't mixed signals, those are guys not repeating the exact same thing they did from the previous day in an effort to make everyone around him not suspect him of sending mixed signals. - More than a year ago
 

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minibear
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minibear      When: More than a year ago
Lol. I have no idea. I wish they wouldn't though. It turns me off personally. I hate when guys do that. It doesn't make me chase you it makes me mad at you.
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alteran87
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alteran87      When: More than a year ago
You can't make a generalized broad comment like that. Not ALL guys send mixed signals, that's like saying all women like jerks, or all girls suck at math. For all you know, you could be getting mixed signals from all the guys you know because you are unknowingly sending out mixed signals, or your friends who complain about the guys they like are sending out mixed signals.
Men are just as confused by women as women are about men. And making broad blanket statements like this one is part of the problem.
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Lumn3 Truer words have not been spoken - More than a year ago
linksterboy Seconded. - More than a year ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Well if he does like a girl and is unsure of her feelings, it just might be fear of rejection.
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