So I spent awhile trying to be single and not really see anyone, I kind of wanted to get through school and just be more independent, but I was still seeing my ex, we broke up but we both tried to date other people and it didn't work out, so we decided we would just hang out and be friends. well we are too attracted to each other to be friends, so then we were just having sex.
well then he started wanting me to come over more and more, and I was kind of pushing him away because I wasn't ready.
well two weeks ago something hit me and I now really want to be with him, so he took me out on a nice dinner date and I asked him if we could make this work again? well now every time I ask if we can hang out he always says. "I dunno, I'll let you know later" I haven't seen him in a week mainly because of the holidays and work. but I've tried to ask him about it, and he just says that he's really busy and that he just wants us to hang out and he's still trying to figure out if he wants to be with me. do you guys think this is true or does he already know he doesn't want to be with me?
You have fallin for the oldest trick in the book; he was just getting regular sex from you without any commitment, but when you decided to make it serious he realized he mighty not be able to keep porking the other chicks he has lined up. Ever here the old saying, "why buy the cow if the milk is free" ; as long as he is getting a free piece of ass he is fine, but trying to train a dog or a pig to be a GENTLEMAN is impossible. Either get couples counselling from your Pastor or REPENT and get the heck away from this scum bag ! Look at it like this, he knows GOD doesn't allow fornication and will hold him accountable for this abomination yet the only thing he can think about is maintaining his life of SIN, what does that tell you about him deep inside ? Is that the kind of man you want raising your children ? HELL NO, cause he is going to be out with his buddies when you are home changing diapers and making bottles, andyou will wish you had married a REAL MAN instead of a boy ! _ Never let someone use you like toilet paper, GOD has a plan for your life, and you are more precious than gold so own that and live like it, demanding to be treated like the lady you are or should be !
Wow.. I have to completely disagree with you on all of that... for one he gets mad anytime I tell him to find other girls to be with cause I've asked him if he wants to see other people and be with other girls and he continues to tell me it's not other girls, two he doesn't go out hardly ever, three I don't ever want kids or to be married so I don't have to worry about taking care of diapers.. but thanks for commenting anyways... - 10 months ago
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