but I lost most of my own hair and now wear a hair piece permanently. It get retattached once a month and no one can tell. Actually people love my long hair> Guy are constantly asking me out on dates cause I'm a hot girl, but I no longer accept afraid of rejection. I realize most guys could not accept the truth. That a hot girl is actually wearing fake hair. But I am also being incredibly vain here because I want to connect on a deeper level then looks. Is there hope? Humor is big on my list.
Update: Well the hairpiece is attached to the top of my scalp so the man could never run his finger through my hair (at least not at the scalp). I am a white girl so I feel it is less acceptable to have this kind of hair style. I am so afraid.
11 months ago
Love surpasses all physical aspects, it shouldn't be about that, sadly it is, some will not, others won't care. and some will love you for who you are.
I guess this is one of those things that can fall into what is a preference for someone. I've worn hair weaves in the past and guys never cared. I was pretty self-conscious of it, but I find that hair pieces and weaves are so common these days that it's not a big deal. I'm going to say, continue to be attractive and humorous and try to put the other stuff behind you. The right guy will not care about your hair. I've had a guy help me take out my hair weave, help me put in a perm and everything. When a guy really loves/likes you they really just like you for you. If men are constantly asking you out, GO! Have a good time and once you feel one or two of them out enough to share your secret with, go for it. Otherwise, just keep being the hottie. LOL Best of Luck :o)
Oh yes there is hope. When you meet the guy that you have the intellectual connection with - you might be surprised what he will be okay with and able to accept. It is the fake shallow guys that can't accept it. Just make sure you feel a guy out as best you can and not fall for the crap before opening up. Besides if they reject you - shows how shallow and stupid they are LOL.
If the guy is really worth your time, it won't matter to him if you wear a hair piece or not. On the other hand, you will never find a guy who's worth it, if you are too afraid to find out. I'll be honest and say it might take some work to find a guy who isn't completely shallow, but I can promise you there is a guy out there who won't care.You've admitted yourself that you are a good person, let that be the thing you focus on when you go out, don't worry about your hair, there are people (even girls) who do that on purpose you know :D
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