The last woman I dated ditched me because she said she didn't like the idea of being the only thing I have. I went on a date with an old friend of mine and she asked about my family, I tried to put it off explaining to her that my last family member died last year for as long as I could. Later she asked me why I avoided the question and when I explained to her my family situation she stopped talking to me. Most girls won't give me the time of day when they find out I've lost everyone. I don't understand what women are afraid of. Why won't women get the courage they need to date guys like me?
It's not his fault, I wouldn't hold it against someone. They sound really insensitive and cold. Maybe they don't want anything serious or they think you'll be clingy or something. That's a bad assumption to make, I agree they should get to know you better.
they are being SO shallow its not even funny. If they end up doing this, it shows them what type of person they REALLY are. If I had a boyfriend who this happened to, I'd be there 100% knowing I'd be the only person they have. But getting to the point, find someone who is worthy of being "your all" you don't need shallow bitches that leave you because of it. You deserve better!
What a terrible thing to experience. My only explanation is by some strange cosmic twist you are only attracting insensitive women who are too wrapped up in their own needs to empathize with your losses. It would definitely not turn me off to know you were the last in your family. I would think that you take all relationships seriously and would cherish the time you had because you knew exactly how short life was. Good luck.
Hun there are a lot of people out there that just plainly don't undertstand, and truthfully, if they are going to walk away after knowing that, they are not the nicest of people. I had people walk away when my mother passed and it left me with my two children and from that has had the same impact as you are talking about, as I have no adult family members in my life, so they think I am clingy, which you know does not go down well with guys. Its hard when you are all alone, and peole can be so cruel. you will find someone who will either relate to your situation, or are compassionate and understanding and would not do that to you. there are women out there that are like that. don't give up on that hope.
First of all those girls are bitches who obviously have no feelings, you don't leave someone just because their all alone, trust me I know how you feel my mother died 5yrs ago and now it's jsut me and my sister who lives on the east coast and I leave on the west. there is nothing wrong with a guy just because he doesn't have anyone else, I would feel special that you confided in me
Because they are stupid and shallow and don't have a clue about feelings. Seriously if a guy told me that - I would be sensitive about it and I sure as heck wouldn't find it a reason to stop seeing him if everything was going well and I was into him. There is nothing wrong with you.
I've never heard of this situation before, but my guess is that girls think that if they dated you, and it didn't work out, that they'd devastate you if they broke up.
Tough call, though. If you mention the fact too soon, it might seem like a bombshell. If you wait too long, might seem like you're hiding it.
I doubt it's a dealbreaker for _all_ women, but you might have to accept that this is something that some women find unpleasant. And that's okay -- there are lots of reasons people aren't a good match.
Another possibility is that your family situation isn't _the_ reason they're not dating you, but is simply a _convenient_ excuse.
Might sound morbid, but someone who's lost their family members might be more sympathetic. But I don't know how you'd find out that kind of information.
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