Evilbegining
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
It would rock if girls asked sometimes! The fact that society has the guy always asking drives me crazy, I've known girls who liked me a lot, but I never would have asked out but had they asked me I would have jumped on it.
The confidence that it instills in a guy when a girl has the guts to ask HIM is intense, most guys will flip and you will go up the ladder a few notched.
A guy who has a issue with being asked out isn't worth your time anyway =)
I think it would be awesome if a girl asked me out. I would not think less of her. It would actually have to opposite effect. I would think that she is very confidant in herself to ask a guy out. I have had only one girl ask me out in my life and it was the best feeling. The only reason I turned her down was because I was already in a relationship at the time. What I would do if another girl would ask me out now.....................
I always thought it would be awesome if a girl asked me out but I was shy back in the day too now if I notice that a girl is obviously interested via she flirts with me a lot then I will do it myself so either way works but if you want it done the best way is to do it yourself!!
Konvicts
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
It's normal. Especially in the generation we are living in, I see girls asking guys out all the time. It goes either way. Guys don't see it as desperate, I mean if your interested then why would we assume that?
You can just straight up ask him out though. Get to know what he is like, what he's about, his personality, his past relationships, things like that. Most girls already ask guys out, but they don't come straight out and say it. They do so with hints. Girls who are brave and confident enough in themselves should ask the guy out by any means. They usually only ask a guy out when they are clueless to get the hints, but yeah to answer your question, most guys wouldn't think less of you. They would be more flattered to hear an honest answer from a girl because they would know you are interested in them.
BlueHobo
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I think more girls should ask more guys out but sometimes a guy might not like that. They like to feel they are in control, I would hint at him to ask you out for a while before you ask him out. It's a sad truth.
You could tell him that you wanna hang out more and flirt with him a lot n basically show him you would say yes if you asked him out. If he likes you and wants to go out with you and hasn't asked you yet it's only because he is afraid you will say no. - More than a year ago
Question Asker
Ok so basically just flirt with him more.. thank you!!! - More than a year ago
Question Asker
Ok so I just flirt with him .....thank you!!! - More than a year ago
Answerer
Yes and if he flirts back then you know he likes you. If he still hasn't asked you out then maybe you could ask him out but that should always be your last resort in my opinion. But times are changing, girls will be asking more guys out than guys asking girls out soon.. - More than a year ago
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drivenhollow21
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
It goes both ways, if you like someone you should ask them, but get to know each other first, learn about each other, then decide if you wanna date from there take it slow.
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