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Where's all the technically inclined girls?

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higurb (Age:25 to 29)     When: 10 months ago
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I'm getting sick of the usual bubbly headed girl that ditches you as soon as she finds another guy that gives her attention. You always end up on dates where there isn't much to talk about because she thinks reading books is hard and can't do something as simple as change a flat tire. I would like to meet a girl who is like me and works with her hands. I sat down and thought about it and can't think of a place to meet a girl like that. I've never met a girl that could program or weld. I would once like to meet a girl that can operate an English wheel. Where do you find girls like this or do they even exist?


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londongirl357
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londongirl357      When: A month ago
There are definitely beautiful women who are strong, independent, intelligent, a bit geeky, etc. I'd like to think I'm one of them! The guy I'm currently interested in has been chasing me like crazy since we just 'click' and when he found out I loved videogames, hardcore music and maths he went nuts (in a good way). I'm into fashion and am quite feminine, but I love having a few beers and playing video games or roughing it up at a concert. So yes, girls like that do exist. It sounds like you want an attractive and intelligent woman, and I genuinely believe there are HEAPS of them out there. Just don't try the usual bar dating scene, try somewhere a bit nerdy or masculine or out of the ordinary.
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Question Asker I'd completely forgotten that I had asked this question. Nine months ago when I wrote this question I was very upset with the dating scene and just not finding any girl I clicked with. I've kind of gotten over that even though I still haven't found any girl I click with. I guess I was getting a little frustrated because I'm turning 30 soon and since my last family member died, I felt kind of lonely.

I'll probably find her one day. Although my chances are getting slimmer every day. - A month ago
Answerer I'm sorry for your loss, I hope things start looking up for you. 30 really isn't old at all, you have time to find someone special, the more you worry about it the less likely it is to happen. What about asking friends to set you up or if they know any 'technically inclined' women? Often times women who are capable and strong and kinda masculine don't always look it, it's not like we wear a neon sign, you might be surprised to learn that the girl with the perfect manicure can also fix a PC. - A month ago
Answerer Try being more social in general, not just dating. By going out with your friends and meeting people, you might just meet some great women. Give online dating a go too, say that you want a capable woman to be your equal. Just try putting yourself out there as much as possible. If you stay home feeling lonely, you aren't going to meet anyone. Try improving other aspects of your life too, if you have your things together then every aspect of your life will improve, including dating.
Good luck!! - A month ago
Question Asker Things are kind of different now, the older I get the more I like being a lone. I find meeting women to be a bit of a chore. I don't want to generalize and put all women down or anything like that. Sometimes I get kind of lonely but when I go out and meet a girl she ends up getting on my nerves really fast. It's annoying the stuff they say and how blind most of them seem to be to the world around them. You find something interesting and want to learn more about it and she's just sitting there. - A month ago
Question Asker With a blank stare on her face.

It would be nice to be able to share something with someone. Especially after spending all of the decade alone. The only girl I ever met like that is married to my old best friends. He won't let her talk to me and they moved to the other side of the country.

Online dating is so bad, there's always 10 giuys to 1 girl. You never get any responses and it doesn't matter how you word it or how many times you try to contact someone different. - A month ago

musicrocks44452
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musicrocks44452      When: 7 months ago
try the engineering department
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Bubbacup
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Bubbacup      When: 10 months ago
They do but they are not always wearing a big sign that says so...
I love extreme sports, mechanics (cars - meaning yes I can change a tyre)) and even playing Max Payne on the ps2 (I should really keep that on the DL), I like bowling, I can plumb in a bathroom, decorate and tile, I read books and I like to learn random info.
Don't get me wrong I also like some girlie stuff BUT when I am out and about (for example my picture) I too could pass for a ditzy "oh my god like , yar" kind of girl. You never can tell you just got to give people a shot and not judge a book by it's cover. We also don't all gather in certain places but on the opinion of just me, myself and I...I don't really go "clubbing" all that much, I can stomach a bar when it's not full of prissys and pretty boys who check the mirror every 2 seconds but I mainly prefer pubs, like with a pool table and a dartboard and music in the background that you can hear one another over. Try there first if not then just keep your eyes peeled, haha! :o)
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LadyKupkakes
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LadyKupkakes      When: 10 months ago
Well I would like to tell you that yes, those kind of girls do exist. I understand how frustrated you feel because I am a huge nerd myself and it was always so hard to find someone who would accept me for who I am. But I gotta disagree with Ms sexycrystal54313. Not all beautiful girls are bubbly headed. I know that I am not Miss Universe, but I also don't consider myself ugly physically. I've had many boyfriends in the past and even now that I am in a very happy and stable relationship I have guys tailing after me. I suppose it's because I have broken a stereotype that all nerdy girls are ugly. trust me, I am a huge nerd. I love Reading Historical books and watching the History Channel in both English and Spanish is a favorite of mine. But I also know how to have fun and I love talking about almost anything. people are never bored when they are around me, and yet I'm still a nerd. Funny, isn't it? Yeah, I've had bad relationships in the past, but that didn't stop me from giving up you know what I mean? I was patient, got to know guys and on the summer of 08 I finally met someone who I love very much and he loves me no matter how nerdy I am. Lol. But what I'm trying to say is, be patient. Get to know more girls and talk to them about what your interests are. I'm sure you'll find one that will stand out and share the same interests as you. Hope this helps. :)
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Question Asker Real easy to say that when you are under 18. - 10 months ago
Answerer Lol, you're the second person who has to point out my age. Yes, I know I am 17, but I'm almost 18 in like 3 months, so what's the difference? Like I said, you gotta be patient if you really want that kind of girl that's your type, you know what I mean? Now if you're kind of in a rush, than go out more. hang around girls that share your interest. Talk about your interests. trust me, there will be a girl that will show up who you will like. :) - 10 months ago

sexycrystal54313
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sexycrystal54313      When: 10 months ago
Don't worry they do exist , because I am one of them. As where to find them anywhere you just have to look hard and try looking for the not outrageously beautiful ones , I'm not saying that all beautiful girls are bubbly headed but your more likely to find a more down to earth girl that's not what society would say is beautiful, try looking at different parts of your school
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atchie023
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atchie023      When: 10 months ago
of course they exist and I could say I am one of them. Actually, its like also asking is there any guy there that think and analyze things prospectively than just thinking of sex? I mean, there are different kinds of people and its kinda frustrating if we have restrictions and standards. I agree with two responses.. first, yup, you should look it where to should be found out but not all the time. girls could be cowboys also and feminine at the same time. maybe you're looking on a wrong locations. also, on the second respond, it will take time, effort and openness. I ma thinking MAYBE you just don't yet find that girl that you will be attracted really. regardless of who she is, what can she capable of or if she is feminine or not... you will know that! maybe now you just want a change but do you think it is really that you're looking for?
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needaglassawata
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needaglassawata      When: 10 months ago
They exist, but they're a minority because the way our society makes it easier and more acceptable for girls to be interested in things that are perceived as feminine. if you want to find girls who are into working in the trades, hang around a tradeschool. If you want to find bibliophiles, hang around a library. if you want a programmer chick, visit the computer science part of any university. Go to the source!
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Shlei3      When: 10 months ago
This made me think of Flash Dance. There are all sorts of girls out there. Some of us love reading books and having knowledge while others prefer to be prissy and pretty. It takes time to meet the kind of girl that sparks your fancy. It took me years to run across a guy that loved to read or watch foreign films. I always wanted to meet a guy that was worldly and appreciated cultures other than his. I yearned for a guy who didn't mind watching some independant foreign film with subtitles. I am now engaged to a man that isn't worldly and reads a little. What attracted me to him was his open ways. He is always up for trying different foods, movies, cultures...etc. Sometimes he likes it sometimes he will pass on it. But I appreciate his open mind and I appreciate how I can be myself with him.
My point is, sometimes we don't find exactly what we want but we do find a person that is open minded enough. We learn from each other which makes for amazing times. Don't give up hope, you will meet that lucky girl someday. Maybe she won't be a welder but maybe she has the mind open enough to learn about it.
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needaglassawata I agree with most of what you're saying except the part where you imply that being 'pretty' and 'intelligent' come from opposite ends of the spectrum. Since when is being intelligent and attractive mutually exclusive? - 10 months ago
Answerer Never said it was on the opposite end of the spectrum, I said there are all types of girls. I'm sorry I didn't clarify more. I know that I am attractive and intelligent myself. That's the beauty of the world. There are all types of different people out there. - 10 months ago
 

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SinHiro
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SinHiro      When: 6 months ago
They're a myth in my opinion as I still can't find a girl like you are describing. I did find 1 but she says she's not ready for a relationship. Met her online. I figure the intelligent ones are online, somewhere...maybe...nah...myth I say.
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