When in high school, I never got to date. My mom left me and I had to fend for myself. I had no time or the resources to date. I lost out on a lot of social learning. In my early 20's I found myself having great difficulty in finding a girlfriend. Girls didn't like me and I didn't understand them plus most girls in that age range are drunks and or drug addicts so if you don't do that then it's not going to work out. Now that I've spent the last few years in isolation other than work time has passed me by. I haven't met a girl around my age that isn't married with kids. All my friends are married too, they never have time to hang out anymore. There is no one left to hang out with in this town. I'm not sure it would be a great idea to move right now because of how hard it is to find a job. I'm not sure if I could make it work there either, it could be me and if I move my problems would just follow me. After my last family member died I find myself very lonely. I'm afraid that I've missed the boat when it comes to dating. It's something that life never prepared me for. I have nothing here, but I fear that I will have nothing there also.
I don't think you should move unless youa re smart and able to get a high paying job... in the mean time... why don't you go to church and try to meet people there? There are churches that welcome unbelievers in the hopes of converting them. And I disagree tht all girls are druggies.. it depends where you meet them... all of my female friends, about 70% of them are medical students or biology majors... and about 80% of my friends are virgins. Look again...
I've done the Church thing before, that's where I've met the worst of the worst girls. I also would like to point out that you are right that not all girls are druggies but I guess what you are trying to say by it depending on where I look would mean that it's time for me to move. - More than a year ago
Moving to a new town can help you bust out of rut, sometimes in a big way.
But don't expect it to be a miracle. You still need to work on changing your life. But a change of scenery can help motivate you.
If you have nothing holding you in town, you have nothing to lose, either. At the worst you'll be in the same situation you are now. But you'll have tried something new and pushed out of your comfort zone, too. That can be empowering.
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