I been hanging out with this guys 4 times, the first time we met in his house, little party, where my friend 'hooked'' us up. We kissed and made out, no sex. We exchanged #s and we were hanging out 3 times after that. I liked him, he seemed to like me too because he complimented me each time we met, he said I'm very pretty, I have pretty eyes and so on. He even seemed to care about me,because sometimes he'd call me and when I'd ignore him, he'd call my friend to ask about me and so on. He wanted to know and meet my family, but I thought it was too soon since I knew him only 2 months, but we weren't in a relationship yet. So one day my friend tells me that he's a jerk, that he tried to have sex with her and the other girl when they and other ppl were hanging out. I got mad at him. When he called me I ignored him. Then one day I picked it up, but I was talking cold. Again he called me couple times more and I didn't answer. So here comes christmas eve and he calls me, but I miss it and he leaves me a voice message to call him back. Couple days later I call him, he sounded to be happy and little nervous.
He asked me what I'm doing on the weekend and if I wanna hang out with him, I said idk maybe ill be hanging out with my friends. Then he says he'll call me. I ignored him a lot, but I had a reason for that, but something says in me to give him a chance. Because with me he wasn't a jerk, I liked him, because he was funny and even gave me some smart advises. Guys, do you think I should give him one more shot since I ignored him a lot and he still kept on calling me?
Update: Ok.. he hasn't called me since the time he said he'll call me,because I was kind of ignorant when we talked.. do ya think I should call him and ask him to hang out?
More than a year ago
I think you could give him a chance, cautiously. But, you need to see how he treats people when you aren't around to see it, before you decide to go far with him.
Konvicts
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
He sounds into you. The thing that happened with him and your friends though..kind of gives an 'uneasy' feeling. Like he's desperate for that kind of thing. Has he tried with you at all? It does seem like he's really interested about you. Some of his actions may be caused by the party incident. You made out with him the first time you met him?
Maybe he is just after you to finish what he started and it seems like he is trying to rush you with the wanting to meet your family/get to know you. You seem to brush him off you a lot and he keeps going for it, so he isn't going to take no for an answer. You could give him a chance, just remember to not let him take things too far. So being alone in a place with no supervision would be a bad idea, he might get the wrong idea.
He's a jerk to your friends but nice to you. You should find out what his true personality is and then you will see what kind of person he is. You should show him your interested in being friends, and let your intuition lead you from there.
Yes we made out on the first time, no sex. but we were both kind of drank that time. I forgot to mention he and my friend had kissed before I met him. - More than a year ago
Answerer
Give him the benefit of the doubt. Give a moment to think to yourself if this is the kind of guy you want. If you want things to continue, take things slow. It's a good way to test him, because if he really loves you he will respect you enough to wait. - More than a year ago
Question Asker
He doesn't love me! why would he love me if in the very beginning he said to my friend that he's afraid I might fall for him because he thought I was younger than 17 ha ha than later he found that I'm about to be 18 soon lol. He's 23 though. - More than a year ago
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thormoto45
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Sounds like he's pretty into you. I'd give him a shot. I mean...you don't have to start out dating him or anything but let him prove himself and if things seem good then see where that path goes. If you ignoring him hasn't gotten rid of him I'd say he'd be willing to do a lot just to be around you.
If he's been cordial to you and acts interested I don't see the harm in hanging out with him- maybe doing something without friends involved? Lunch at the mall or something?
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