I've been messaging this real fine body builder type guy on myspace and I've asked him on several occasions if we could meet up and he's always coming up with excuses. But its funny because he makes picture comments about me saying I'm sexy, gorgeous which obviously means I look good to him but he doesn't seem to want to meet. We message each other back and forth constantly and we even talk on messenger. Is he gay? or not into meeting women on line?
I mean, I even said to him that he don't seem really interested and he said no that's not it and that he is always tired from working out, wok, etc excuses again. He said he just broke up with his girlfriend a month ago so he's single. I don't get it. If you like a girl, wouldn't you want to meet her?
Either that guy isn't the guy in the picture, or he has some kind of fear of meeting in person. In either case, it sounds like you would be better off not trying to meet him.
Yea besides, I asked this question last year. Lol. Its been done with. We never met up, which is unusual 4 me. This was all in Germany like 4 months ago. He's long gone. I'm now in Dallas Texas. - 9 months ago
Maybe those sexy body pictures are not his or he just stole them and since you were both more attached by each others physical appearance, he might be afraid you won't like his looks in reality. U know internet is a cyber world and some people forget where they're and fake it. I personally never met anyone online, even I've made some friends over the world, but if I really wanted to meet someone new in my life, I wouldn't do it over internet,because its too easy. I'd rather go to the party and start to get to know people from face to face conversations. But its just me, I don't know. But if you are really interested into the guy, and he seems to be interested in you, then ask him for his #. Good luck!
Hope you figure it out. Real men are easier to deal with- mostly because we elevate our expectations of the person on the other side of the screen. Wishful thinking, I guess. Go get them tiger!
Maybe he's not a body-builder type? He might be in a relationship? Or he might be insecure of his own body-image - I've seen a lot of the vain people on the inside are quite insecure... believe it or not. Ask him why he's not doing anything about it? It won't get you anywhere but to the truth, and if he hesitates, dump him and move on!
Yea, your right. but, girl, if you saw him, you would think he's a body builder or stripper. He has that type of body. I think guys like him are stuck up for real. but yea i'm thinking he's still with his girl. So to hell with him! - More than a year ago
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