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Is this signs of a shy guy or..?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 10 months ago
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You know how guys sometimes are, especially the ones who are nice and don't attract a lot of attention? sometimes you don't know if they are shy or uninterested or friendly or.. hmm.

if a guy does things like
- suddenly appear in your lunch grp with your mutual friend
- spends like an hour or so chatting to you
- asks you a few questions about what you usually do, why you do certain stuff, what you watch on tv etc

- ignores you whenever there are people or looks over from a distance but when you guys are strictly alone, he talks to you
- supposed to head another way but says he can get a bus at where you are heading to and tags along

- is extremely polite to you online but after a few weeks, sounds abit distant. doesn't talk unless you initiate
- after he's accepted you on facebook he immed takes this quiz "how to tell someone you are interested"

you've been classmates for 3 mths but uve never observed him. what would you think, and what would you do if you might not be seeing him again next term? (:


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crazycool
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crazycool      When: 10 months ago
It sounds like this guy has a slight case of ADD along with shyness and that's probably the reason he asks such basic questions
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Question Asker Haha what made you say ADD? ;) and btw, would you be scared off if you were him and I struck up a conversation with you? though I was animated (thats the way I talk), would you still be scared off? and do you believe the guy has to do ALL THE WORK? - 10 months ago
 

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italiabella91      When: 6 months ago
he sounds like my crush...minus the facebook quiz.I don't see mine in person too often though and he stares OPENLY at me from afar in person,but doesn't ever say a word and now he ignores me online.I mostly emphasize FRIEND with him and don't imply liking him at all.I wonder if that's why.lol,and he's barely online due to life and such,you know the deal.And he is like the "ladies man" and flirts with other girls he's known for years.

but honestly,what you are asking sounds like a friendship thing in my opinion.Friends tend to do stuff like this with people they are comfortable with.Usually,a shy guy will ave trouble being around the girl he likes and have a hard time talking to her.Not want to tag along with her.If he is shy,he'll be distant and won't say too much.

If he is doing all this,it definately sounds like he likes you as a friend.Sorry if you are looking for a relationship with this person,but I don't think he's interested in you that way.But its always good to keep friends close:)..thats why I don't consider anything with anyone.
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Question Asker Cool. I'm not interested in him anymore. haha. so it doesn't matter whether he's interested in me or not.

i don't agree with you though haha :P there are many dif types of shy guys and they are not necessarily the types who have trouble talking to a girl or staying away from her IMO. the key is the difference in how he treats other people (esp girls) vs treating someone he's interested in.

ive only known him for 2wks though. so yeah. thanks though(: - 6 months ago
Answerer Wow..you know,I never thought of it that way:/..you may have a good point.I think you should be an expert and be answering things like this more than asking them....but yeah,some shy guys do stay away from the one's they like,and some dont.Depends on the level I suppose. - 6 months ago
 
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