So, I'm 23, and this girl is 19... I've known her for about half a year now, met her in university... we've only started talking a little more now. Anyways, I think she's super shy and she doesn't really make the effort to meet people, she just sticks with her old friends from high school... We had lunch in the cafe at school... And the day after I texted her if she wanted to go for dinner/lunch on the weekend. I never got anything back... so half a day later I asked if I said something wrong. She then told me it seemed like you were asking me out. I mean I was asking her out, but obviously there's a problem and she either is not interested in me or I'm moving too fast... I then texted her saying I WAS asking her out and it was the only way to get to know a person better and if she wasn't comfortable, then it's okay. I never got a reply back anymore... Girls, tell me, do I still have a chance if I stay away from her perhaps? Should I try again in a month? Or am I done? Girls are very hard to figure out!
I would suggest just letting her be for a while, perhaps try again in a few weeks. It sounds to me like she may just want to be friends but since you mentioned she is shy, she may just be nervous about accepting your date. Wait a few days, see if she says anything to you, if not..just go back to being her friend. You'll get to know her that way, it may just take a bit longer, plus she'll have the chance to warm up to you if she really is just a bit shy. I hope that helps.
I really suggest you move on. This girl can't be the one and only girl for you, you know? There's still many other girls you can ask out on dates. A half a year is more than ample to know someone before asking them on a date, so to be honest it sounds like she probably isn't interested.
I say, if you really like this girl and figure it's worth it, try again after she's had time and doesn't seem mad anymore.
(Just a tip though) asking people through text, email, and such isn't really bad for the reasons people think it is. A lot of the time it makes situations like this. I say ask her next time in person or over the phone so you won't have to wait indefinitely for an answer.
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