About a year ago, my best friend introduced me to her ex boyfriend's friend (bob) who she is still close with. We all hung out and I started liking (bob) and ended up sleeping with him after he pursued me. Before I could tell my best friend she was telling me about a time when they were hanging out together, she was sleeping and he started having sex with her. He apologized and they never spoke of it again.
I was devastated when she told me because 1. I don't date people my friends sleep with and 2. now I don't know if he still likes her. I don't want to develop strong feelings for this guy if he likes my friend. We don't talk on the phone and they do, they have funny inside jokes and he's always making fun of her when we hang. I know she thinks of him as a friend but could he be pinning away for her? How can I be sure he likes me and not her.
ALWAYSclassy
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Are you serious?? He had sex with your best friend while she was sleeping ::cough::RAPE::cough:: and you still want to know if he likes you? Who cares even if he did like you? He's a scumbag. He would probably rape you if he had the chance.
Now would be a good time to sit in a quiet room and listen to what your gut is telling you.
Just from what you said, I wouldn't want to develop strong feelings for him based on the fact he had sex with her while she was sleeping. That just seems shady. Apology or not.
Does he know you know? Maybe you should bring it up sometime. That may give you some clarity on the situation and help you decide whether or not you want to continue on with him.
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
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