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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 9 months ago
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How many of you frown upon a relationship between a white guy and an asian female? Please describe your reason.


Update: how many guys will consider an asian girl when it comes to marriage?    9 months ago

Update: I've read other article about how a lot of people would not be involved in interracial marriage themselves. So I was just curious as to how many people will be against this mix of interracial relationship.    9 months ago

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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 5 months ago
I've dated Asian before and I see no reason to "frown" upon anyone dating a different race.
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Brandon1961
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Brandon1961      When: 8 months ago
I am a white guy and I really like this one asian girl but that does make me more afraid to talk to her because there are some asian parents who do not want their children with white people.
I've also heard one asian say that is it "Lucky" for a white and an asian to be together. I'm not real sure what she meant by that though. Anyways, I deffinitely do not frown upon it. If you like a white guy/asian girl then go for it. You never know what might happen.
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nbc5023 Sir, I think you are being extremely harsh. Sure there is some fantasies men have about seductive Asian females, but men have them about white women to. I know a white man who has been married to an Asian woman for decades. The two have two children. Sexual fantasies never end like that. Also(I can't believe I am defending the porn industry), I am sure somewhere you could find Asian males. The bulk of it all however, is going to be its target audience(white males) and their fantasies. - 4 months ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
honestly when guys hear "asian" it's the whole idea of fetishism toward asian women. the fetish is that asian women are docile, subservient, and obedient little sex massage parlor geishas. you know the old movie of vietnam war where the viet prostitute approached american soldiers and say "hi baby, sucky sucky five dollar? me love you long time" that's EXACTLY what guy's think of when thinking of asian girls' sexuality. the porn industry plays a huge part too. guys watches tons of porn. you might not understand as a girl "why would you watch that stuff?" but yes, they all do (over 97%). guys just can't help it. asian in american population is less than 5% but in porn industry they are everywhere. and in these porns, there is always this interplay of dirty words being back and forth. the guy would be like "you like my white cock, don't you? you bad little geisha" the asian porn actress would reply (better with a chinese accent) "oh~ yes! me love you long time! fuuck my tight asian pussy!" obviously very degrading and contempting to asian women, but this is a turn on for men because it's that whole theme of dominance and conquering asian women (also, notice there are NEVER asian guys in the porn industry. another idea of "snatching away" those exotic, foreign women from asian guys and winning the mating battle). whether you believe it or not this is true 99% of guys learn and explore their sexuality through porn, so they are very very exposed to these kinds of themes for this kinds of mindset from an early age, and the term "asian" has almost become a porn category, not a race (just google "asian" and see what you get) and even in the popular media, there are plenty of subtle notions that goes along witht this theme. just look at the ad next to your question lol. they are treated like commercial commodities and sex objects. "how much is the shipping fee for these asian women?"

of course all of these idea existing in guys minds are VERY subtle. and men who want to get asian women for this kind of reasons will especially be cautious about not offending so they can get in their pants and fufill their sexual fantasy. for many men, it's very subconscious, because if they are too conscious, it will be obvious and make them look somewhat racist.
but yes, subconsciously, the idea and theme is played in all guys minds, as long as they have been exposed to american porn and media, which almost all of them have been.
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Camilus
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Camilus      When: 9 months ago
I don't know if I ever want to get married because I don't see the point, plus I've seen a lot of men get screwed in the divorce (including my dad)

But anyways, I would definitely consider being in an interracial relationship with an Asian woman if I liked her. I don't have a fetish for them like some white guys do but I think they are usually very smart with their stuff together and look pretty good.
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good-looking-geek
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good-looking-geek      When: 9 months ago
I will not date an Asian girl, but that is just my taste in women. But I don't mind if other people date different races. Terra Patrick is half white and half Thai and she is stunning, so the fruits of an interracial marriage can be a good thing. Barack Obama is half black and half white, and I don't mind at all; I voted for him. I am glad he was brought into this world (because of his intelligence). I really don't give a damn about what races he is.

But I just like white women, so they are the only ones I will date. That is just my preference.
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darkscorpio
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darkscorpio      When: 9 months ago
Doesnt matter one little bit, date whoever you want and be happy!
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doctorwhofan23
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doctorwhofan23      When: 9 months ago
Nothing wrong with that as long as the love is there.
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MoonFight
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MoonFight      When: 2 months ago
I think I have a preference for my own race, it's just me. I'm more comfortable with it, but it's like it was so hard for me because I grew up around whites and few asians where I lived that I just had to form a white fetish or be white washed. it sucked though because like my crush liked this one white chick and he was a skater boy. you know.

And anyway, I was like this shy asian girl so yeah.

but like if I guess there was a nice white dude that liked me I will like them like as a friend but nothing more.
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Dollface-86
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Dollface-86      When: 3 months ago
I am all for it. You love who you love. I was brought up to simply love and respect people. I have only ever dated interracially and no one I know finds it to be a big deal.
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Marrryyyyy
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Marrryyyyy      When: 5 months ago
i don't care- I just do my own thing
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Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: 5 months ago
not me. I wouldn't. my mom's asian and my dad's white. and they did have us kids so lol. they both told me how hard it was. my mom's side didn't accept him that well and onmy mom's side, they were really harsh about him being white. they were very very wanting her to date someone asian. anyways, my dad never gave up on her and eventually they got married. so it isn't a bad thing, it can work out . it just take s a little work and understanding
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Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: 6 months ago
yeah some white guys don't want to have babies with asian girls because the babies won't have 'blond' hair like them...i' read that in a question on line.
but I'm a product of that and I'm find with asian girls being with white guys
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lolli
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lolli      When: 9 months ago
why would you ask this?
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Answerer I think interracial is good - 9 months ago

adorkabletmtm
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adorkabletmtm      When: 9 months ago
LMAO WTF?!
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thelittlethings
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thelittlethings      When: 9 months ago
No frownies here. I am white, that doesn't define me. Color doesn't make you who you are. It shouldn't make people like you anymore or any less.
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Summer-Sun
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Summer-Sun      When: 9 months ago
I don't frown upon it at all!
Every one should be able to date whoever they want to!
Race would not come in 2 it 4 me, if I fell 4 some1 of a different race it would not even come to my mind to think of them any different.
People should be more welcoming to interracial relationships and I don't understand when people are mean or frown upon it!
Everyone is entitled to be happy, so let them be :) x
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