I am not sure of my situation with this girl. The first night that I met her she slept over at my place and we hooked up and fooled around a little bit. We went out on a date a few days later and then about a week later she called me and asked me to come and get her from her place (because she wanted to spend the night with me). Of course I went and got her and we did what we did last time. I asked her out again later that week but she couldn't hang out for some reason so we rescheduled (I then canceled on her at the last minute).
She then asked me later that night how many girls I had had sex with and I wasn't really sure what she was getting at. She doesn't really call me ever or text me ever on her own (other than that time) and she doesn't really ever pick up the phone when I try to call her. Some of my girl friends have told me that I have to be the boy (I have to call and initiate stuff) but I don't really know if this girl wants a real relationship or if she just wants to be physical at this point. I really like this girl a lot and I would like to start dating her but I just don't know what to think because she isn't really reciprocating.
K well I think you should come straight on with her and ask her whats the deal. Obviously not in an aggressive way, take her out, hang with her, and bring up the topic of serious relationship. Just be honest with her about how you feel and ask her how she feels. It shouldn't be all about sex and it seems like to her that's what its all about. If she can't take the relationship away from the idea of sex...then maybe she's not worth it.
xxxcravingsxxx
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Well I think your friends are right. Be the man. Secondly I think you should be straightforward with the girl. Maybe take her out to a nice dinner and let her know how you feel. That you wanna date more exclusively? You Don't want it to be just sex with her.
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