Ok my friend set me up with this guy at the moment were just talkin over the phone he told my friend he was looking through my face book pictures and that I'm gorgeous. Only thing is I take really good photos that make me look fabulous and skinny when really I'm just average looking and chubby that's why I hate people judging me from my photos because there the better version of me!!
And now I don't want to meet up with him because he's expecting that girl not me!! like obviously the photos look like me because it is me but I don't look that good on a day to day basis!!
Well, if you are already expecting the worst, then what's the harm in meeting him anyway? The best that could happen is that he really likes you. The worst that could happen is that it will happen the way you expect. So, there is nothing to lose. Give it a chance and see what happens.
Yada, Yada....Give yourself a break. If he thinks your beautiful, go with it.
I did match.com for many years before meeting my wife there. Nobody ever looked like their pictures, but it wasn't the picture,it was always my exaggerated view of the picture to something she wasn't.
Be confident, unless you hired a stunt double, that girl in the picture is you, what he makes of the picture is up to him. A for the camera taking off 20, no way. If you take good pictures it is because you look good in the camera. Give up the nonsense and try a date with this guy already.
I think that's just a cop out because you're nervous to go through with meeting him. If a guys thinks you're beautiful, don't second guess him... just say thank you!
You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. You know... there are some girls who are the prettiest little things in person and have the worst personalities... This guy is attracted to your looks and personality. That's a good thing! And anyway, how do you know he isn't sitting there thinking the same thing ("she won't like me because I'm too")
Well I like this guy, and this guy likes me (well he told me I was the only person he truly cared for so I'm guessing he likes me). Then his friends...
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