Hello, I'm not usually confused with guys, but with this particular one I am and its really quite annoying. So heres the scenario and give me your honest opinion no matter how crude it is.
Met this guy talked over the phone over a period of a couple of weeks after he got my number and then we went out on a date. Had an awesome time and then the week after went out on another date. Then he wasn't calling as much but after a week or so we managed to catch up again on a third date and ended up kissig and holding hands. The after that I think he went through a freak out period or something and only called me once a week if that for a couple of weeks or about a month.
So I was like, ok suff this guy, he's an idiot. So I stopped replying to him text msgs and not returning his calls. After about a couple days of doing that, he was like calling me twice a day everyday, none of which I was picking up. After about the 5th day of this I kinda felt bad so I picked up and pretended that really nothing was bothering me.
Anyways a couple of days after that he msged me, coz he noticed that I had deleted him off facebook and myspace and was wondering if anything was wrong.
So I had this chat with him, explained that I was confused about what was going on, because he was sending mixed signals. Then he went on to say that he wasn't ready for a relationship or something like that and that he still needed to get over some shit and that the whole time he never wanted to be more than friends.
Yeh that's right, I have never had the lets just be friends line used on me, usually I use it on other people, so maybe it was just biting me on the butt. I told him that I had enough friends already and said that I didn't want to talk to him anymore. He was cut about the whole friendship thing, justified the reason why we should be friends for like 1/2 hour and left it open and said, well if you still want to be friends, ill be waiting for your call or msg.
So what I'm wondering first of all is did he always want to JUST be friends or is this some lame ass excuse for something else like :your a bad kisser" or something. lol. N secondly is the ball in my court to re - initiate contact. Does that mean that we will always just be friends. Or is he wanting just to be friends, coz he's a little scared of committment and just wants to ease into this whole .. relationship thing. OR are all these questions just pointless and stupid and I should just get over it an d move onto someone who is worth my time.
Man I'm like the sound of that last response. None the less .. guys, girls, I'm interested in what you guys think happened here.
Well, he might not have really even meant it when he said let's be friends. A lot of people just say that to be polite, even though they don't really mean it.
Or, in his case, he might have realized you weren't interested, and he wanted to beat you to it by breaking things off, before you had a chance to do it yourself, so that he could get the credit for it.
He's confused as to what he wants or he just wanted to get laid and since that didn't happen as fast as he thought it would, he justifies it with "let's be friends". No one goes on a date with a friend, and no one kisses a "just friend". Glad you dumped him.
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