I'm 18 and the last time I had a boyfriend was when I was 14. I wouldn't say I'm stunningly attractive but I don't think I'm ugly either. I've even been told by others (family, friends, guys) that I'm pretty.
I'd say I'm a really nice girl once you get to know me, however I'm very shy. All of my friends have either, a steady line of guys wanting to be with them or are in a very serious relationship.
Sometimes I feel like there must be something wrong with me (that I'm ugly or have a bad personality or something) because all of them have relationships but I don't. I'm tired of being alone. What can I do to change this?
You can walk with more confidence, smile more, present a front that says things are going well. People feed off your energy, and if the energy is bad, they turn off.
Also, try looking in different places. A change of scene might do some good!
lovebird01
(Age:Over 45)
When: More than a year ago
I would just give it time, and stop worrying so much. There is nothing wrong with you; you just haven't met the right guy yet. It will happen when you least expect it. Believe me, there are a lot of guys feeling the same way as you; wishing they could find someone to date. Be patient!
sexwiseman
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
Hah.....we all go thru cycles.....I went three years without having a gf, and I was just dating around, but the older you get, the more you realize is best to be alone than be involved in a pathetic relationship just to say you're in one.
I know many couples that have miserable relationships, but they don't break up cause they are afraid to be alone. What type of life is that? Anyway, as the cliche says, when you least expect it, then you find somebody or that somebody finds you.
You don't mention what social activities you do, and by that I mean, are you socially active, and you still can't find a boyfriend, or do you stay at home waiting for mr price to find you? Either way, if you truly believe you need to do something about changing your single status, then do some type of activity that will allow you to meet more guys. Of course, this depends where you live, but activities could be dancing lessons, joining a rowing team, and there is always the internet dating sites. This ain't the 1800's!
Ha, ha, ha! You are SO right, Sexwiseman! Being alone is much better than being in a bad relationship! Wish I had talked to you before I had my two exes!! - More than a year ago
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