I'd like to get an opinion and the probability of you giving out your number for these cases--
Now just assume that the guy is decent looking, not the cutest/ugliest and of course NOT creepy.
Case 1) A guy you have seen before, perhaps a former classmate, a person who just said hi to you on the elevator, and basically you two know of each other's existence. What if he decided one day to approach you and say that he is interested in you and ask you out on a date? How do you ladies feel about this, and how likely is it for you to give him your number?
Case 2) This a guy who was introduced to you by your friend. So you and this guy have talked, know each other's name and the basics. He ask you for a hangout/date without saying the reason. Or maybe he just tell you that it'll be fun to be at this so and so place, so you should go with him.
Case 3) A guy you've never seen before, a total stranger, approaches you and ask you out. As for the location, how about at the club/bar? at the mall, at school?
singlegirl06
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Case 1) I wouldn't mind giving him my number....
Case 2) again.. I don't think I would mind if he seems genuine.
case 3)....this is the tricky one......if I met a guy at a bar or club, I would hesitate to give out my number because, for one, I never met him before and I don't know what his intentions are. and 2, I think guys who approach girls at the club are all a bit creepy. ok and as for the mall, I would probably ask for a myspace or something before I give out my number.. ---at school.. hmm.. since it is a different environment than the club or the mall, I MIGHT give him my number if he was nice and smooth about it ya know?
Well case 1: I'm not sure I could give someone my number that easily before knowing him that much..unless he's totally cool...BUT I'LL DO IT BOTH WAYS!!
glowgirl3
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
I agree with April. I would give every guy in each scenario my number because they had the guts to ask me out. That takes a lot for men to do nowadays! LOL. The only thing is that with Case #3 I would suggest a public place like a restaurant or bowling or something because I don't know him at all.
Let's see 1) If we have talked before then yeah definitely, if we at least have said hi to each other or somehow acknowledge each other when we meet, sure. If not, I'd be a little hesitant, depends on the approach and the vibe set out.
2) Absolutely
3) If it's at a club or something then maybe, again depending on the apporach and vibe, 'cause most of the time we go out to meet other people, usually ones we might be attracted to. But, at school, mall or other scenarios there might be some hesitation, I might give you my number but not agree to go out with you entierly alone (I might suggest meeting up somewhere I'll already be with friends, like coffee, the school cafeteria, local hang out and see how it goes from there) or unless I can find some information about you, see if anybody I know might know you or something about you.
Assuming I weren't married I'd probably give my number to the guy in all of those cases. I realize it takes a lot for a guy to approach a girl and I would be flattered he'd want to get to know me.
My reactions:
Case 1) "Totally. Yeah, we should definitely get together and do something, here's my #." Case 2) Same as case 1 Case 3) "Here's my number, call me next week and we'll figure something out." I'd be a little more hesitant with the club/bar scenario depending on his state of mind when he's asking me (e.g. doesn't give the vibe he's just looking for a one night stand or hookup). I've been known to hand out the rejection hot line number on several occasions :)
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