Awhile ago, I asked out one of my coworkers that I would flirt with quite a bit, and we had a wonderful time together, and we agreed that we'd keep it to ourselves...and we acted like nothing had happened when we worked together, but would wink at each other and still flirt...then at our work's Christmas party, we ended up making out, then she text me the next day and said that I made her life, and she had a great time...
we then got together for coffee slightly after, and we made out again afterwards, agreeing to go out again...but then last minute, she gets cold feet and tells me that on new years she saw her ex-bf, and she told me they were starting to talk again, I told her if she wants to go back and eat hamburger when she has steak right here, she can be my guest...then she responds by saying that she knows that I'm wonderful, and she wants to see me happy, but she doesn't want to be in a relationship maybe, she admitted that her ex-bf is probably not the best thing for her, and she is scared to be hurt...she said she needs to take things slow right now...I really liked her, and I didn't mind taking things slow or even wait for her, but at the same time, I didn't want to waste my time if she was playing around with me, so I just told her that if you're not feeling it, just tell me so that I can at least move on and not think that there is something here when there isn't...and she responds by saying that she feels the same as I do about us, and enjoys my company, but she is really confused, and she doesn't know what she is feeling, and needs to sort out her shit..... ...should I take all of what she is saying at face value, or is there something else going on? I'm confused.
We really hit things off wonderfully, and I was floored when she told me about the ex-bf, especially when she talked bad about him, and told me why she broke up with him, so then she admits that he is not the best thing for her...I'm just confused as to what is going on here....what is she trying to say? Is she really confused? Is she giving me excuses? Even after I gave her an ultimatum, she still didn't bite and said that she likes me, but doesn't necessarily want me to wait for her, but right after repeated that she enjoys my company a lot...it's like she's dangling me on a string...some help please!!!!!
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Personally I think she is going to go back to the hamburger. :( Girls have a tendency to go back to what they are used to and try again. We don't give up to easily. I hope I am wrong.
Tisk tisk my friend, you never should have said that, because now she thinks or possibly knows that you like her, game over. Once she said I am seeing my ex again, you should have said something along the lines of oh ok cool, and made something up like well I also have been seeing another girl too. Your right she's dangling you on a string or playing you for a fool man, so what to do? It's simple she's a fish and your the fisherman not the other way around. If you want this fish then your going to have to work for it my friend, because apparently your not the only fisherman out there, her ex has a huge advantage over you, she tells you how bad he was to her but yet she's supposedly talking to him again. Don't worry though, most guys won't get back with their ex, no matter how much she wants him back the only reason why he went back to her was to get something from her because he knows he can. Her ex has all the power over her so now what you need to do is take her back. Stop acting like a friend to her once she brings up and ex change the subject who gives a crap about him, you keep this up and your just going to be her friend that has a shoulder for her to cry on. Don't let her do that she likes your company because your slowly being viewed as only a friend. Get some balls and go for it man next time you see her kiss her, tickle her do whatever you can to get her to see you as more than a friend , and do not let her use you as her emotional tampon unless you are already with the girl.
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