3 weeks ago I went out with this guy and he was nice and everything and he even asked me if I was going to let another date happen again and I said yea sure y not. so he calls me a week later to see if I wanted to hang out again. I told him yea let me know when you are available and stuff. I txtd him friday to see wats up, if he still wanted to hang out. he said sure when? I said sunday and he said ok and I told him well let me know.
sunday comes and no cals or nething and I say to myself, wow this guy blew me off. I decided to move on. 3 days later he says hi and stuff and we talk ot txt. Later that night I txt him and ask him if he wants to hang out and he says yea sure when? I said friday and he said all right sounds good. friday was only 2 days away and I told him well call me so I can know what time you wanna pick me up or w.e.
friday comes and he doesn't call or txt so is say ok w.e I'm really moving on now. and 3 days later, which is today he txtd me like if nothing happened and I said ok well listen I don't see y you even bother txting me if you blew me off twice... ur obviously not worth my time. he txtd back saying he was sry and he didn't have a car... and I told him well you have a phone you could've let me know... and he said yea ur right... btu that's it..
would you guys at least txtd and let the chick know you weren't gonna make it because you don't have a car? or tell me if this guy is interested or not? or better yet, what wdo you guys think?plz help me. I'll appreciate any answers.
Well seems like he has a habit of not showing up. Perhaps he is new to the whole dating thing or what not and gets really nervous. Also I think that he was probably really embarrassed by the fact that he couldn't get the car. Nevertheless, I would probably just sent a message or called and said hey worry I can't do it maybe another time or make up some lame excuse. Two times is rather bad though... I think one would be more acceptable. It could also be possible that he doesn't really want to go on another date and doesn't really know how to say so.
The final possibility is that he has an evil twin who locks him up in his weekends and is wreaking havoc on your life. just kidding.
the guy does not have his crap together, and you should not waste time waiting for him to get it together. move on. there are nice guys who repond to messeges and have working vehicles with vvalid drivers lic. go find one
Yeah he likes you, but maybe he's busy with school, work or family stuff. Who knows? The thing is, you texted him at least twice and asked if he wanted to hang out on a certain day. What he expected was for you to say, "ok want to pick me up at 7?" or something like that. SInce he doesn't have a car, he probably didn't want you to know that he doesn't have one. He probably feels like he can't go out with anyone until he has one. That's all. If you ask him out again, make sure to do it in person, and if he can't pick you up cause he doesn't have a car, its not a bad thing if you have one, or if you ask your parents to use their car to pick him up. I mean, yeah the ideal situation would be him picking you up, but sometimes it just can't happen. Its not his fault. Its not anyone's fault, and sometimes you need to improvise, its perfectly fine.There's nothing wrong with that as long as you like him and he likes you.
Yea well it's been almost 2 weeks since I told him that so I doubt he'll txt anymore. but life goes on.... there are other fish in the sea. but thnx for ur response. =] - 9 months ago
Ask yourself this, would you call to let him know, or would you even break off plans regardless? No, I think you would figure out some alternative, like the bus or a ride am I right? Why? Because your into him.
Sorry if I sounded a little blunt but its pretty simple, why waste your time on someone who clearly doesn't deserve your time. You deserve someone who wants you just as much as you want them, and he's prooving otherwise. It doesn't mean that your not good enough for him, I've been dumped before too, but sometimes there's just no spark and there's nothing you can do but move on to the next. Good luck hunny :) - 9 months ago
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No it's ok I understand. I just wanted an opinion you kno of what I should do b.c he did it the first time and stuff but he was still txting me so I was confused but thank u - 9 months ago
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It is hard to tell. I don't think he would make the effort of txting you if he was not in to you. Have you been the one who has done all of the asking about meeting up?
I would try once more and see what happens. If he txts you reply back but don't ask him about hanging out, let him ask you. That way you know that he is interested and he wants to do it because he has asked.
If nothing happens this time, just move on. It will be the best thing. Just let him know that you are not interested and are not happy with messing around.
Well he hasn't txtd me back and yea I have been the one asking to meet up but he came up with the laim excuse that he didn't have a car so that's y phones were made.....and I don't think he will txt since I told him he is not worth my time.... but there many fish in the sea. - 9 months ago
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