I am currently "dating" a guy, I will call "X" he is 40. I am 39. I have known him for 3 months. He asks me to go to dinner and includes my daughter in that. He also goes out with me when I go with my friends and asks me to go out for a night with him. I met a couple of his friends. I have been sleeping with him for about 2 months. We also spend time at each others house watching a movie or having dinner. We both have spent the night at each others house and both of us are not in a hurry to leave in the morning when we do. Not every time we get together we sleep together. We talk on the phone almost everyday or text each other. He drives over the road and tries to spend his free time with me when he doesn't have his daughter, which he doesn't see his daughter that often, maybe once a month. He says that since he met me he has not seen anyone else. He has never been married and I have been divorced twice. I am too shy to ask him if we are just casually dating, dating exclusively or what he wants from me. How can I bring it up to him? I should tell you that he knows I have a male friend, that is only a friend. my male friend says that maybe one day he would like more with me and me and "X" have talked about my male friend and what he had said. Is it possible that "X" is afraid to say that he wants more because of my male friend? One added note I should tell you. I am too shy to tell "X" that I am falling for him. I won't call it love yet, but I really do like him a lot. He also has not said that he "likes" me. He has told me that he does not throw the LOVE word out unless he really feels that way. We have told each other that we like spending time with each other. Please help me make sense of this.
It sounds like you and "X" have pretty much an exclusive relationship, no matter what you call it. You two have done everything that people do when they really care about each other. You should have a serious talk with him, and decide where you both want the relationship to go. It sounds pretty serious right now. As far as him being afraid to commit to you, I guess that's possible. If that is the case, he is sure sending mixed signals to you. Again, the only way to know for sure is to talk about it. Good luck in your relationship!
A guy who is younger than me, he try to persuade me to enter a casual relationship with him. Is it ok to have this kind of relationship, before we're...
View Answers
So there is this guy that I met a couple of weeks ago. We made out and that was that. I called him last weekend to see if he wanted to hang out and...
View Answers
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
