Ok so I was talking with the guy I liked and he liked me, but its hard for me to open up because I'm so shy and I'm not as experienced as him which made me even more nervous, but so after awhile nothing was progressing so I asked him if nothing was gonna happen between us and he said I wasn't assertive at all and too shy and he hates shyness....um how can I get over my shyness??
Update: Oh and also he said that since I'm shy I'm not his "type"...that hurt....so now in class we talk and whatnot but he acts like nothing happened when in reality he actually hurt me...and it pisses me off..i even told him he hurt me but I don't think he care
More than a year ago
Ask yourself if you have a good reason for being shy. If you do, then perhaps it's not worth changing yourself for one person; after all, he sees in you a quality that he doesn't like.
If you don't have a good reason for being shy, then consider working on it by opening up to him. Just remember that "opening up" primarily should be about emotional availability. In other words, don't let him take advantage of your perceived shyness to the point that you might do things you normally wouldn't do just to prove yourself to him.
Let the relationship either evolve or dissolve, but don't force it.
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