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Want to date but dragging to have "the talk"

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 11 months ago
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If I tell my dad I want to date, I'm afraid I might have to have "the talk", what should I do?

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lovebird01 (Age:Over 45)      When: 11 months ago
Hey, I'm the father of three grown daughters, so I know all about "the talk". I gave it to all three. Trust me, your Dad has your best interests at heart when he gives it. He is just trying to protect his "little red riding hood" from the "big bad wolves" in the forest! Take his advice, and trust him. And never betray his trust in you. If you do slip, and you probably will, he will be there to catch you. Dads do a lot of worrying about their "little girls".

My youngest daughter rebelled a little when she was about 13. She got in a little trouble with a boyfriend, nothing serious, but trouble she didn't want Dad to know about. Well, I found out, and lowered the boom on her for awhile, and she came back around. She was a "Daddy's girl" before this happened, and became one again afterwards when I didn't lose faith in her. She is one to this day, even while fully grown. The point of all of this discussion is this; your Dad will always be there for you if you let him. And while you may disappoint him some, you will always be his little girl, and he will worry about you and be there for you. And he will always be proud of you!

My three daughters are happy, healthy girls these days; and always remember their Dad!
I couldn't be prouder of them!!
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DoNt-PaNiC
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DoNt-PaNiC (Age:Under 18)      When: 11 months ago
I understand you might be nervous about it but really, your going to have the talk sooner or later, and I think its best if you just get it over and done with, it's going to be embarrassing but its all going to be worth it. but don't forget to take their advice, and take in what they are saying, since they know much more than we want to believe.
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magicgirl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
You will have "the talk"! But don't be afraid. This is what mostly dadys do on the talk, They get this very serious fatherly look on their face, And they start setting rules, And then there goes the worst part! They start saying how nasty guys are these days and how they are not trustworthy(which I have to say, I some how agree). So, If you wanna pass "the talk" all you have to do it to listen to him and act like you are understanding every single word he says and then accept every rule he sets, Don't argue with him and Don't panic at all.
and then,when "the talk" is over go kiss him on the cheek,give him a huge and thank him.
All dadys LOVE to be thanked:)
GOOD LUCK
PS: Don't worry about the rules he seta and you don't like them at all.you can change them alittle after some while:p
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April
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April (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
Having "the talk" with a parent can be a bit embarrassing. It's probably just as awkward for a parent to have the conversation as it is for you to listen to it. I think the best thing to do is discuss it like an adult. Showing him you're mature enough to handle the talk will prove to him you're mature enough to date.

Having a daughter of my own, I was just talking to a friend tonight about having that talk with our own kids some day. We both talked openly with our parents and we are so glad we were able to have someone to talk to that wouldn't judge us (like friends or acquaintances) and give us the best advice with our well-being in mind. As much as we love our friends, they don't always have our best interest in mind, ya know?

Just suck it up and talk to dad... hopefully you'll be able to keep the blushing to a minimum! :) Good luck!!
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