One of the most popular guys on campus likes me. Seriously, everyone knows who he is. He has a big job at the school and has a rep as a smart, driven and successful guy. I've accomplished a bit too, but my achievements definitely aren't as well known as his. I've noticed that certain people that I know are connected to him and his job are suddenly staring at me on campus and watching me all the time. Some just seem curious, but others I don't like at all. There's one guy who has been very rude and I don't know why. He's never even met me! This guy also has a big job on campus, but he's below the guy that likes me. Anyway, he's been saying mean things about me. We have a mutual friend that also works in the same place, and he told me the guy said, "I can't believe that's who he fell for". I'm not ugly, and he knows nothing about me.
Apparently, he's not the only one who has been judging me. Why are people doing this?
People judge people all the time, have you never called someone that you didn't know? Maybe, they just don't like you (even though they don't know you) I mean guys can be bitchy aswell. Or maybe they're jealous, they want you to like them and when they find out you don't they start with the gossip.
I'm sorry you are dealing with gossip. Gossip hurts & is aggravating. You can not control no one but yourself.
Here are some things to think about...
Do you like his friends? Do you like his co-workers? If you date this guy you will probably be hanging out with these people. People usually hang out with people like them.
How does he treat you around his peers? Since he is so popular; people may be jealous/envy of you getting close to him. Why is a guy talking bad about you; is he gay & jealous? Seems odd to me.
Is this guy worth it? If not, move on.
If you plan on keeping this amazing guy; you can either -ignore the gossip. -Get that great guy; to protect you & say something to the person gossiping. -You go confront the gossiper & ask him politely to drop it ; it's getting old.
With time you'll find the best answer you can live with.
He treats me very well. He's actually the one who told a bunch of people that he likes me and I guess they didn't keep it to themselves. I know he told all his close friends about me.
His close friends seem like great guys. I definitely don't like all of his co-workers. The guy who's been bad-mouthing me definitely isn't gay. - More than a year ago
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I find it odd that guy is bad mouthing you. There has to be a reason. Casually ask the guy who likes you what he thinks. EG: In a laughing tone, " you would not believe what I heard,___ said ______ about me. Isn't that odd?" Say something witty & funny - More than a year ago
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