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Was it wrong to send a Valentine's Day card?

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Alex9913 (Age:25 to 29)     When: More than a year ago
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I sent this girl I've been kinda dating and flirting with an homemade email Valentine Card, I kept it real friendly, nothing over the top. She hasn't responded. Was it wrong to send it? Should I reach out or just let Feb. 14 pass without calling her? I do care about her but I don't want to seem clingy.


Update: She's pissed. Won't talk to me at all.Says the Valentine was out of bounds,    More than a year ago

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salsachik      When: More than a year ago
Define "kind of dating." Have you taken her out? And how many times? A card might be enough right now. You want to show interest but you're about not wanting to seem clingy and desperate.
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Question Asker Thanks for the response. We see each other pretty often (a couple times per week since last summer). It's a physical relationship, but not exclusive. We had a bit of a falling out and took some time apart but reconnected earlier this week. I didn't want to come on strong, but I did want to mark the day - More than a year ago
 

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Anikaj
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Anikaj      When: More than a year ago
That is insane! what was so out of bounds about it? what did it say?
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Question Asker Pretty friendly. Homemade valentine collage. Made in 30 mins in photo shop. Combined some scenes from our past. Pics of stuff we'd talked about, movie posters, symbols. Nothing over the top at all. I couple of days later I apologized for sending it. She didn't respond. - More than a year ago
Answerer Man forget her a** lol I'm sorry but I would be pissed after putting in that much effort and it just sucks that all you hear is how crappy guys are and what we don't do and then somebody like you does that and what do you get. - More than a year ago
bnwsmile I agree. How ungrateful. I would move on as well. In a few years when she ends up with a jerk and wants him to do things like this she'll remember... and she'll hate herself for being such a selfish bitch. Best of luck to you.

Bnwsmile - A month ago
Answerer Rock on, I love the response lol - 13 days ago

Anikaj
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Anikaj      When: More than a year ago
Yea, salsachik is right, that is a need to know question right there because if you are "Kind of dating" because it could be that she is pissed because you sent that and didn't meet up with her and do summin real nice for her. But its still V-day so you never know, how often do you see her?
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Question Asker I asked her to meet up a couple days earlier. I felt she kind of blew me off, saying that her mother was in town (which she is) so I didn't push it. I did want to see her though. - More than a year ago
Answerer Ok I see, Na I think the card was cool and not a bad idea. I mean if you think about it there are some things that she might take as you being a pain, like showin up at her door with flowers but you kept it simple. I mean you tried and made an effort to hook up and do summin speacial so she can't say you didn't try - More than a year ago
 
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