Is he cheating, losing interest, or am I just over reacting?

I completely understand your dilemma and uncertainty. His actions are a bit vague and hard to interpret. Your concern that maybe he is being completely two-faced and could possibly have another lifestyle you are not aware of is a really hard pill to swallow. You could drive yourself crazy trying to get down to the bottom of this and learn the complete truth. The advice I've gotten is that you have to either trust him or leave him alone. If you find that you are GENUINELY unsure of his true feelings and actions, I would venture to recommend you take a break from him. Intuition is a bitch, mainly because it is oftentimes right on. And the thing about it is, even if it's not, your preoccupation with questioning his sincerity is not healthy and you may need a break from him to get yourself together. Some time to recenter yourself and focus on what's most important in your life. Have I followed this advice? Not yet, but I'm working on it. And I've accepted that it is what's best for me at this time in my life. You may even try to be honest and explain this to him. Be completely honest. We're all human and we all have insecurities. Being upfront about it and sharing it in a very mature way is admirable. Be decisive though in explaining to him what you are going to do about it. Find peace in knowing that it can only get better from here.

Until you have more definitive proof that he is cheating, I'd say for now that he isn't cheating. He might just realize that it isn't good sense to keep using that kind of money to see each other, so, he is looking out for you. He sounds like he likes you. Good luck to you. ;-)

Missing your call once in awhile is one thing but completely ignoring your calls is another. I would honestly give him the benefit of the doubt and say its because he is an independent person. Ultimately I think he cares about you, but I do think that he is busy. Have faith in those that love you.

Try something though, try not calling him and see if he eventually calls you
it may not be what you like but I think he will start to appreciate what he has from you, A voice of sanity in his crazy life.

Good Luck!!

I would give him the benefit of the doubt about cheating. It sounds like he is overwhelmed by school, and is just pressed for time, exhausted, etc. Unless you come across some hard evidence he is cheating, just talk to him, and be supportive, and don't bring the subject of cheating up. He should come around when he sees you are not being confrontational.

If you guys are dating and he said he "loves" you, you should be able to visit him . You don't need money to see each other . Its a 2 hour drive ! You can hang out in his room, watch a movie, take walks . Seriously, how much money do you guys really spend when you see each other before he went back to school ? ! This guys is lying to you . Don't be stupid . The signs are there . If he loves you and misses you, he'll find any way to see you and hear from you .

Its hard to tell, girl. I mean I want to say that he lost interest or is cheating but in this case he could be genuinely busy with school work and stress out. Idk. Just give him a chance before you start jumping to conclusions. If he continues to be distance like this for too long, it could be more than his school work. It could be a lot of things, then you need to really find some time to really talk to him or leave him a long serious message about how you're feeling but don't accuse him of anything. just say you don't feel like he is really there for you and you r unhappy. If he doesn't make an effort to change his ways based on him knowing your unhappy about all this then that means he is not willing to change. So, you move on then to a relationship that you deserve. He's just way too occupied with himself and a relationship can not work like that. Right now, really think about this, give him a little more time to straighten up but you can only wait so long

I don't know the real answer but honestly I highly doubt that he's cheating on you if he is going to school. School.. especially college is something he really needs to focus in on... it's hard to stay ahead without falling behind and I know this because I go to college. If you love this guy and in your heart you trust him... you need to trust he's not cheating on you. If you don't trust him then why are you even with him? A relationship is held together by communication and trust.. if you don't have one of them it will fail.

My advice to you is talk to him when he's available. Please do understand that if he's busy... he really is busy. Tell him you miss him and you want to set aside some time everyday.. even if its 5 to 10 minutes to either talk through text messages or on the phone just to say hows everything... how was ur day. Things like that. As far as the text messages go he wants privacy. I wouldn't appreciate it too much if my fiance were to look through my text messages... but that doesn't mean I'm cheating on him.

So... until you know for a fact he's cheating on you... you need to back off him for the sake of the relationship before he pushes you away and goes in his own direction. I don't mean to sound like a bitch or anything but honestly you don't know... so don't accuse him. Respect him and give him time and remember that he did warn you this was going to happen before he started school right then should have been your decision to keep the relationship or be friends.