OK, before I start I'll say I'm not talking about things like marriage or whatever.
What I'm thinking about is when to tell the person you're dating you don't want children, or that your a virgin and are waiting, or that you are into certain kinks, or other issues that would affect the future of the relationship.
For example. Would you say you don't want children soon in a relationship so you don't drag out something that won't work if the person your are dating is dead set on having children? Or do you wait when things are a little more serious and your feelings are more defined even if this means you spent all that time with a person who it won't work out with in the end?
If it's a case by case scenario, how do you know when the right time to bring up the issue is?
You kinda have to look at it in her eyes, if it is important to her then she will take your opinion on it as well. Unless it is something that is vital to you and a relationship then bring it up when the topic comes. If the topic is life or death, deal with it at the soonest possible time.
The right time is when you think is necessary to bring it up.
For example, for a while I didn't want children because I was busy with school, work, etc. As soon as I met a woman, on the first or second date, I would bring up the issue somehow, and then find out what the woman's idea was on the subject.
If there was a subject that I really considered to be important, then I would bring that up as soon as possible because I didn't want to drag on a relationship, and then find out that there would be problems with that issue....
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