How come I only attract assholes and when I meet nice guys they don't seem dateable or they don't pursue me? I'm not ugly or slutty so what's the problem?
I'm pretty sure it lies in your reasoning that begins with "I'm not ugly or slutty so what's the problem?"
It seems that you are looking at relationships from an unstable, shallow perspective. Thus you are attractive to others who look at relationships from an unstable, shallow perspective.
The so called nice guy is one who wants an emotional connection. You have to make yourself emotionally appealing.
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