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Nice guy phobic?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 11 months ago
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How come I only attract assholes and when I meet nice guys they don't seem dateable or they don't pursue me? I'm not ugly or slutty so what's the problem?

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Stanley (Age:30 to 35)      When: 11 months ago
I'm pretty sure it lies in your reasoning that begins with "I'm not ugly or slutty so what's the problem?"

It seems that you are looking at relationships from an unstable, shallow perspective. Thus you are attractive to others who look at relationships from an unstable, shallow perspective.

The so called nice guy is one who wants an emotional connection. You have to make yourself emotionally appealing.
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cannondale (Age:30 to 35)      When: 11 months ago
Because subliminally you think his cockiness is power and he treats you like crap to get your attention. its less work for him.
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roten27 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
Maybe you don't come across as available to the nice guys so they don't come after you.
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