Okay..I'll try to make a long story short: dating for about 7 months-bf got a DUI and now has a suspended drivers license. Lives with his parents (lost his house after a bad break-up with ex-fiancee). his parents have been out of the country for about 1 month-coming back tonight. We thought they were coming back tomorrow. We were supposed to go out of town tomorrow to celebrate my birthday. I was going to go to his house (about 30 minutes from my work) and take him back to my house (about 45 minutes). However, his parents are coming back tonight. I told him I thought he should stay home tonight to hang with the parents since they have been gone so long and suggested that I just pick him up tomorrow morning. Also...he will unofficially be "living" with me for awhile because he works from home and he can just work from my house so it won't be so hard for us to see each other. He agreed that he should be with his parents, so why don't I go home from work and then go back later tonight to pick him up and take him back to my house. I said I would, but I would really just rather pick him up in the morning because it's kind of a pain to drive all the way home, then to his house, then back to my house. He said then just forget it...come pick him up now and he won't see his parents. I said ok, but told him I thought that it was not cool for him to not be around to greet his parents when they get home. He said, okay-forget it-just pick me up tomorrow-i don't like the guilt trip. Guilt trip?!? What guilt trip? It's not my frigging parents...i was just giving him my opinion. Now I'm irritated and don't even want to deal. Am I being a bitch? Or do I have a right to be pissed?
These kinds of arguments are really irritating for both sides. It's such a petty thing but because you go back and forth and start getting attitudes with each other, the situation gets overblown and more frustrating than it should be or was initially. So, yeah, it'd be irritated but don't let it bother you for too long.
(Age:30 to 35)
When: More than a year ago
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