Should I tell my boyfriend?

the fact that he said something isn't too bad, but from what you say he also touched you. Sure he only grabbed your hand, but it was stepping over the line. Any guy who hits on his friends girlfriend is a creep. I'm guessing it's going to awkward the next time you two are around each other and if its obvious your boyfriend will know something is out of whack.

Now if your boyfriend suspects something his mind might begin to wonder. You don't want him to think you and his friend slept together... that would be bad.

I think it would be ok to say something along the lines of

"You know Joe was really drunk the other night and was being really forward with me and it made me uncomfortable."

He will probably ask you what you mean by "being really forward"
Then you could tell him something like...

"well he was continuously telling me how beautiful I was and when I got up to leave he gabbed my hand"

He will probably ask you what you did when he "grabbed you"
then you could possibly say something like...

"well I was creeped out so I just left"

make sure you let him know how creeped out you were, but don't go nuts/crazy.

I think if you make him aware of the situation without getting all flustered he will begin to take notice when you three hangout in the future.

You should tell him. Who is to say this won't happen again and next time it go further where you end up hurt? It shows you are honest and it is best to know what his friends are doing and what their intentions are.

The guy was obviously drunk. Nothing happened, so there is no point in making a big deal over nothing.

I think this is one of those situation where you have to be pragmatic.

What would you tell your boyfriend exactly. That the guy was drunk and said a load of weird stuff, that made you feel uncomfortable, that's not all that big a deal. And if you did tell him what good could come of it? He would think less of his friend and this would create social problems. Or what would happen if you said nothing. You would have to be wary of this guy, when he's drunk. That not a big deal.

So, I wouldn't say anything unless it came up in other conversation. We all get drunk and act a bit weird. You should really give the guy the benefit of the doubt.

The fact that you're on here asking us whether or not you should tell him means, he made you really uncomfortable. If any of your boyfriends friends step over that comfort line your boyfriend needs to know about. Its not cool. And as for the people who were saying he was drunk, being drunk is not an excuse. A creep is a creep. Just becasue you're drunk doesn't make up for it. Unless you have completely black out you are fully capable of knowing what you are doing. That's not cool AT ALL.

I believe you should definitely tell your boyfriend and make sure to explain that his friend was very drunk. It was out of line but its not like he tried to take advantage of you.

The guy was drunk, you said normally he's nice, so unless it's really bothering you or unless you need to tell him I'd let it be. Nothing happended, right? The guy might have some hidden feelings or maybe he was just too drunk to even know. If it happens again I might tell someone. It's up to you whatever you feel is what needs to be done. I'm glad to hear you didn't accept him or do anything you'd regret.

As long as nothing "happened," which means anything from kissing--sex, it's no big deal. The guy was drunk, said some stupid stuff, and you left like any good girlfriend would. No need to create a big web of drama and misunderstanding out of a little harmless incident like that.

dont tell him! this has happened to me many times before and I really don't see the point of maybe destroying a friendship when nothing happened. that's just me though, I can't stand it when girls feel the need to tell their boyfreind every time another guy even looks at them. it just causes unnes. drama! I mean maybe if his friend keeps doing it over and over and you become quite annoyed by it, you might need to say something but I doubt it will get to this point. I know being drunk shouldnt be an excuse but it does cause people to do things they normally wouldnt.

No tell your boyfriend. That would be dumb if you didn't. clearly this guy is not a true friend if he's trying to get at his own girlfriend. Being drunk does not make up for it. so tell your boyfriend today!