i slept with the guy I have been seeing, WAY TOO SOON! I regret it but whatever its done. I talked to him after we slept together yesterday but he didn't call me last night or today yet. and he usually calls every night. did I blow it by sleeping with him? or am I just overacting?! advice please!
Guys aren't always thinking "HELL YEAH I HIT THAT" sometimes guys get scared after they have slept with a girl. Sometimes the girl gets really possessive. Or it's possible the girl was a real freak in bed and the guy realizes that isn't what he wants.
It's not always about another notch in the bed post. I've been with plenty of girls who bite really hard and leave marks. To me that's a turn off.
He's obviously making it clear that he wants a little space. I suggest you give him that space. He probably doesn't want you to think you two are hopping into an exclusive relationship so quickly. He may have opened up to a girl in the past after sex just to have his heart broken. Now he may take things a little slower.
Thanks so much for your response I hope you are right. so how long should I wait for him to call until its safe to say he isn't interested anymore? some people are saying that maybe I should call or send a text. what do you think?! - More than a year ago
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Well the truth is guys can feel used too. So I think it would be ok to call him in 2-3 days. If he doesn't answer... leave a message. If he doesn't call you back or he texts you then move on. If he continues to only text you... continue to move on. - More than a year ago
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Hm its funny how girls don't think guys could feel used. ok so I will give it a few days then I will contact him but I'm hoping he will call first!! thank you! - More than a year ago
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Oh yeah guys get used too. I've dated plenty of girls who are still in love with their exboyfriends. All they are looking for is a guy to hookup with and have sex with. I seem to attract these girls for some odd reason. Unfortunately, I find many women aren't really serious. I take the relationship for what it's worth. If all they want is sex then its possible that is all the relationship is really worth. - More than a year ago
Well personally I think he was waiting for you to give it up and now that you have he has no more intrest in you and somthing has caught all the intrest he had for you sadly and with a broken heart I reply with this news from experience and for your sake I hope you didn't fall in love unless you want to cry then by all means let it all out you won't feel better until later but it will help somewhat
Idk, if you have sex with a guy soon, some guys think, "Yes! I had her" and they move on to the next girl and then you have the guys that thinks "yeah, I slept with her. Imma call her again to see if I can hit that a second time." either way that's bad. If you did blow it with this guy, future reference, the next guy that comes along, make him wait and know your worth way more than just a piece of ass.
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