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Having trouble trying to find the guy that's ready to be serious.

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dreday (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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Can anyone tell me where to find a guy that is ready for a serious relationship? Do you guys think online dating could help?

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alovesj4eva (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
I was skeptic about online dating at first I tried match.com one time and met a majority of guys who just wanted to get some so I cancelled it. A year after that I signed up again only for a couple months hoping new guys had joined and I could meet someone new. It took a few weeks of meeting losers when this guy contacted me through the site, I didn't have my hopes up since I was let down before but we just clicked and I knew I wanted him. He was ready to be exclusive and we have been dating for 6 months. I think you just have to look and weed out the guys to find ur prince charming my boyfriend proved to me they are out there.
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Acuzio Did you find that people accurately described themselves? Throughout your search, did you change any of the aspects you were looking for in a partner? - 11 months ago

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 9 months ago
Online dating actually works, because you can narrow down your choices with the criteria they have in the programs. And usually the guy says just what he is looking for. That way you know ahead of time before you go to the trouble of meeting in person.
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LuvTheBeach555
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LuvTheBeach555 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Read some of my other answers on finding a relationship, or being lonely... It is not something you can rush
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Aedak (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
The same place where the girl I'm looking for is, not here. I'd be careful with online dating, but it could help. The good thing about online dating is you can filter all the people you aren't interested out very easily. The downside is you really don't know the other person or how genuine they are. Not to mention, the person for you could live on the other side of the country.
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Acuzio (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
It could help, since people list what they're looking for... But you might be limiting your options if you only date people who have profiles on dating sites.

All guys are ready for a serious relationship when they find the right person. Keep looking and you'll find someone who is ready for you.
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gthcsmt
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gthcsmt (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Hey, I could ask you the same question for girls! I'm a 23 year old virgin, and I'm trying to save it for "the one" but all the girls I meet are not the right ones for me. Bars and clubbing definitely are not the places to go for serious relationships, but I see you're not into that.
Online dating, I'm pretty skeptical about and I don't do that myself. But quite a few of my friends do that and they seem to be pretty successful. I dunno, maybe now adays people are always busy working and stuff they don't have time to meet people and they do it over the internet. I'm guessing that might be the new generation now.
I've also tried taking some night classes, like dancing and language classes, but so far no luck. I guess your time has not come yet. But believe me, it will one day and you'll be really happy you waited! I for one myself am still waiting for "the one" as well.
Are you a shy girl? Maybe try to be more outgoing and chill out with your friends, go watch a movie, shopping... if you like a guy in a mall for example, give him a glance and then look back again, show him he's interested and if he likes you too, he will talk to you...
Good luck in your venture!!
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Question Asker Yeah I think I'm more the intimidating type then a shy girl. I'm laid back but not to where I'm shy. I give guys looks all the time. I suppose I'm just not they're type - 11 months ago
Answerer Are you pretty and dress very nice? I for one am really intimated by these types of girls actually, even if they stare at me. Kinda makes me feel like I'm outta their league. If this is you, then maybe you should make the first move... - 11 months ago

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davidsaj (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
I think your moving in the right direction, but I have tried it myself and I wasn't too impressed. you could try eharmony which isn't too bad, or maybe try some form of speed dating where you actually meet the person and decide if you want to go on a real date with them. Just remember, if you are meeting all the guys at bars or clubs, you are in the wrong places for meeting serious guys.
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Question Asker I don't even go to clubs.. I was never ever in to that seen. It's too crazy for me. I'm more mellow and chill. - 11 months ago
 

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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
I would say finding a good guy at a bar would not be the best idea. What about at work or maybe through friends? School? Online dating could work, but I would be a little suspicious. You are a pretty girl and you're young, someone will come along. Have fun until they do!
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BeautifulDoll392 (Age:Under 18)      When: 11 months ago
Uhmm. I would say yes. But you never know about things that are real. You know what I mean? Like I would stick with face to face sating it's easy and less complicated.
Bets of luck.
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