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How do I know if the guy I'm dating wants to date me or have sex with me?

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pixiepinkluv (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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We've been casually dating for 2 months now. He only seems to call when he wants to hang out which is maybe once a week. Other than that I have to call him and plan things. I've met his family recently and they already knew who I was already. So no introductions needed. The last two dates we've had, ended up with him trying to get me to have sex with him. The last one, he kicked me out in the nicest way he could when he had given up. He tried to make me feel bad for giving him blue balls...THEN he told me he would be going to bed. He was really really tired.
Am I wasting my time or is this him being a jerk?

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 9 months ago
Wow, after trying for two months, he has persistence. But it sounds like he just wants the sex. So, if that's not good enough, then you don't need him.
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Consilience (Age:25 to 29)      When: 11 months ago
2 months? This guy has patients. The question is, why won't you have sex with him? 2 months seems to be a long time to make a decision. Are you using sex as a weapon? Thinking if you give it up he will leave? If the sex is good , he won't leave, if he waited this long at least give him a hand job or something. Just being honest
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Question Asker Now the first date. He tried to get his hands in personal places. lol...In a packed movie theater...
the 2 months isn't even like that. there hasn't been communication. we've both admitted it. but I'm the only one to work on it. so what about that shit? - 11 months ago
Answerer Ok I see now. What do you know about him? Do you have mutual friends? Try to get more info on this guy and see if he's just a horn dog. Tell him like it is, if you want to get in these undies, you have to deserve it more. You worth it, right? - 11 months ago
 

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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
-2 months is really not that long, especially if you only see each other once a week.
-and another red flag is the fact that you are usually the one who has to make plans. when a guy really likes you, he will make it known and want to spend all this time with you and make a better effort
-if he kicked you out after you wouldn't have sex with him, and then tried to manipulate you into feeling bad, then you already know he is an ass who just wants one thing. if you give it to him he will probably use you and move on to the next so don't be that girl!
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