I have asked questions here before regarding a crush I have on a coworker (sorry if it is getting annoying. But this should be the last time ;d) and since my last question I have acquired the extremely valuable asset of another female coworker (my age. . . And she has a boyfriend with whom she is completely devoted to). We click really well and I have already shared with her that I have a crush on my other coworker (she approves and thinks it's cute lol? ).
Also, since my last post I semi invited him out on a casual date (but not really I think) by suddenly having the balls of steel to ask him if he wanted to grab some pho (a vietnamese soup) with me one night after work when we were both left in the parking lot (we both hadn't driven off yet and I back out of my parking space and pulled up right near his car and asked him). During this late dinner I was kind of frazzled because I was so blown away by my sudden balls of steel and ended up coughing everywhere because I stupidly put too much pepper in my soup and overall I'm pretty sure I just seemed a klutz. . . And I let slip that I had been asked out by a classmate in my volleyball class and that things were awkward in the class now (mistake I think) the next day I kind of had to ignore him because I was training the new girl. . . And the day following that I sent him a text giving him the option to call me if he wanted to do something (to which he hasn't replied to yet).
I'm worried that I might seem like a freak to him because when I get nervous I start acting klutzy and retarded. . . And yeah. Probably not the most attractive thing lol! I just want to know if he he is interested in pursuing me or not so I can know whether or not to move on.
should I utilize my new asset and have my new coworker try to get the lowdown on the situation from his end for me so I can determine my next course of action? It has been several months since I started working there and I know he is shy, but I feel like he might have made a move within that time if he was interested. Maybe I missed his move (god that would be terrible). Or perhaps he is just intimidated because one of our coworkers has asked me out (i rejected him) and because a lot my other coworkers are pretty flirty with me as well.
thanks so much for your input and advice! It is appreciated more than you know <3!
p. S. I love how this stuff has only started happening to me this year, what is up with that? Crazy!
Well, if the co-worker doesn't mind doing it, then why not? I doubt he'll think of you as a freak, he doesn't really even know you yet. Just do what you can to obtain him, and see where it goes. He might be a good one.
Ok first off. Breath. Now how long ago was the txt message cause he might have gotten busy you never know. Don't worry about being a klutz when you are nervous it happens to a lot of people and it can be very endearing. If it has been a while since the txt go up to him and start talking to him gauge his response to you. And if it seems that he is still into you but unsure where to go take the next step your self again.
It was almost two weeks ago =/! The weekend in between we were both in horrible moods (for me my grandpa was in~whom I despise [he's racist] and for him he didn't get to go on his snowboarding trip as planned). Yesterday he was super sweet to cover me - 8 months ago
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You can always call him to see what he's up to this weekend no harm in asking right? - 8 months ago
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The txt was two weeks ago right that is definitely not too needy. - 8 months ago
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Yeah it was 2 weeks ago! Awesome! Thanks so much for your input man! :d - 8 months ago
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