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Salvage the friendship...not the romance

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 8 months ago
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There's this guy who obviously has a crush on me. I don't like him in that way we are just really really good friends. He invited me to a concert, I love plain white t's and really want to go. However I'm positive he invited me so we can be alone and he'll ask me out which I don't want. Should I go to the concert and just say I don't like you like that etc. Or just not go in which I'd miss the concert and have to avoid him around school, town, in life. Am I just conceited that I want to go 4 the concert?

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
If he knew before the concert that you aren't interested in him, he would probably want to take someone else. So, you owe it to him to tell him soon.
If he still wants to take you, he will, but you need to tell him.
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glitzy87 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
I agree with imsohood2008. But if I were you I'd try to find some time to talk to him about it. If it's really obvious he likes you, then he may be mistaking your friendliness for flirting. It's not very fair for him to be led on (even indirectly) with this hope that you could like him more than friends. Go to the concert, have fun, and try to figure out how to tell him after. There's no point in feeling awkward at the concert when the tickets and everything has already been planned.
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imsohood2008 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
You can still go to the concert because there is still that chance he might not ask you out. But if he was to ask you out then just tell him you don't like him like that. You want to be friends and that's it. He will understand if he is actually your friend.
*good luck*
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