i went out with this guy, he seemed distant and untalkative. we went to the mall to see a movie. right before the movie he said he had to go. What the hell? he asked me out. i don't get it. i didn't say anything or do anything wrong. please explain why he would do this...
You need to ask him. We can't possibly know what he's thinking. Only he can. Don't be afraid to ask him why he was acting that way or why he had to leave early.
He said he had to go. he won't tell me. - 11 months ago
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Did you ask him after the fact? And ask him why he was being distant? - 11 months ago
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Yeah. I asked why he wasnt being himself, and he wouldn't tell me. - 11 months ago
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Well then tell him you don't feel comfortable hanging out with someone that isn't honest and up front with you. - 11 months ago
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Yeah, that's probably the smart thing to do. Thank you for the help :) - 11 months ago
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No problem. I think it is rude for someone to just be distant and weird, and then leave all of a sudden without an explanation. It doesn't matter if it's someone you like, or a friend. They should at least be decent enough to explain why. - 11 months ago
Well you gotta be more specific...It could be that he likes you alot, and was incredibly nervous and had to leave real quick. Or he could have had to shit really badly. No joke, that happens sometimes, especially if you're nervous. It could be a million things, I think you need to give more detail, to get a better reply.
Well, ok. I will explain everything. so he asked me out to go to the movies. I said yes. We decided to go on a double date. We went with his best friend who was dating my best friend. I think that might have been the problem. But, we were walking around the mall for a while and he was kinda out of it which was very unlike him. I mean the night he asked me out he was like himself. so after we walked around for a while we sat down at the foodcourt to decide what movie we wanted to see, then we - 11 months ago
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Then we went to go buy tickets. he steps off to the side of the ticket counter into a corner where it looks like he is on the phone, then he comes out and says he has to go home. Now it didn't seem convincing to me. I think he was lying. But for what reason would he do that? - 11 months ago
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Its real hard to say. He was lying for sure. Something was up. But it could be many things. Sorry I can't give you specifics....You could always try asking him? But then I don't know what your relationship is like... - 11 months ago
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Well we just started dating. That was our first date. Plus I tried asking him and he just said he had to go he won't tell me anything else. - 11 months ago
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Honestly id give him another shot...it could have been a fluke. If he does something weird again then you'll have a clearer picture - 11 months ago
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If I go out with him again and he does the same thing should I dump him? - 11 months ago
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Well use your judgement ya know? I mean is this out of character for the guy? Is he typically sneaky and evasive? Take a look at his character, and if you ares suspicious of him in other situations....then it doesn't sound very good to me ya know? I mean the way you phrase the question sounds like this is uncharacteristic of him right? In which case I would investigate, go out again, and observe. Confront him if you feel you need to. Nothing wrong with that. Ya know? - 11 months ago
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Haha didn't mean to say "ya know?" so much. ya know? - 11 months ago
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