Koldhearted

Do you want a catch or would you rather be the catch

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Koldhearted (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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Would ya want a trophy, or would you rather be the trophy?


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  • Samcha
    306  
    3 months ago
    Both!

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    rather be the catch.

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  • onlyacrush
    877  
    3 months ago
    It has to be both. I want to feel special/desired...but I also need to admire the guy I'm with. The fact that a 'trophy guy' would see ME as the catch would be even more special.

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  • Anchymark
    1083  
    3 months ago
    Be the trophy

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  • awesominated
    388  
    3 months ago
    be the trophy

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  • chocogirl
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    3 months ago
    i would rather be a trophy

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  • elicassidy
    439  
    3 months ago
    I'd rather be the trophy... It'll make me too self conscious being with a catch..

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  • blondebeauty27
    551  
    3 months ago
    i'd rather be the trophy.

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  • jennie121
    68  
    3 months ago
    I like to be the catch.

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  • 999freakshow
    3977  
    3 months ago
    I'd rather be the catch, however nowadays most guys don't seem to go after a girl, so it's usually me inititating things :/

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    Be the trophy.

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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    Idk really... my ex made me feel like a queen but I was also insecure because I thought he was too good for me... but our friends always said he thought the same way about me!

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  • jpinka
    6636  
    3 months ago
    me and my guy both r.

    i rather be the catch, becaus I'm a good woman and that title is just icing on the cake

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  • Moonrisekitten
    974  
    3 months ago
    I've been told by a couple people that I'm the "catch" in my relationship, and while that is completely debatable, I'm fine with it. It has its ups and downs... But if I was going to make a choice, I would choose to be the catch. I just feel safest there.

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  • udolipixie
    24159  
    3 months ago
    Do you want a catch or would you rather be the catch?
    I want a catch as being the catch implies to me dating down and I'd don't consider guys below my level.

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    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      @drjohno
      I know that hence why I want a catch instead of being a catch.
    • 3 months ago
      The catch is the one who dates down.
  • RedSmartie
    12231  
    3 months ago
    Neither. I want someone who is on my level so we can appreciate each other and feel appreciated equally.

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    3 months ago
    I'm going to get a catch as opposed to be the catch. I'm nothing special so I'll never get to be the catch. But my boyfriend? He's an awesome catch...least I think so :)

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  • harveykinkle
    4733  
    3 months ago
    From now on I'm only dating up...

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    Be the trophy, I find that really good looking guys are kind conceded and arrogant.

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    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      I mean, I know that in my past relationships I'm slightly more attractive than my significant other but my craziness definitely detracts.
    • 3 months ago
      So you want to be just as conceded and arrogant to fight that?
  • TheoryOfAvarice
    16142  
    3 months ago
    Can't we both be trophies and have beautiful trophy children?

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  • htarmort14
    1792  
    3 months ago
    I want to be a good catch. If I have to chase the guy, I will but there is got to be a turning point because I don't want to be in love with someone who doesn't like me.

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  • Aiyana612
    217  
    3 months ago
    I definitely feel as thought I got a good catch. I want to be a good catch but too haha. Ohh well.

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    I want to be the trophy

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    The trophy for sure.

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  • sparrow24
    14568  
    3 months ago
    I'd rather be a person - half of the team.

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  • nahiyana20
    1374  
    3 months ago
    i'd rather be the trophy

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  • anon1192
    901  
    3 months ago
    Definitely be the trophy.
    Actually, if I couldn't be the trophy I probably wouldn't bother playing.

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    would rather be the trophy, I get a thrill from it.

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  • PricelessPearl
    -1  
    3 months ago
    Neither. it's not a game!

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    • 3 months ago
      9/10 it is a game... not that that's a happy thought at all.
    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      someone goes up, the other goes down in relationships. a lot of the time anyway
  • PoeticNinja
    22932  
    3 months ago
    Hmmm, be the trophy... But that's impossible.

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    whichever makes a girl like me throught my ugliness

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  • mysmileyface
    542  
    3 months ago
    I like to catch but there has to be a point where I feel like I'm also the catch otherwise I just feel as if the other person doesn't feel the same way about me and I'm just wasting my time.

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  • Light_Yagami
    1868  
    3 months ago
    Would rather be the catch as it strengthens a saying I really believe in

    "Don't marry the person you love, Marry the person who loves you"

    May not make sense to everyone but it speaks volumes to me.

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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    I would rather be the trophy. If I had a trophy that would make me too insecure and jealous.

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  • aDzNichilista
    4681  
    3 months ago
    It is both ways to be honest. I'd want a catch of the girl I'm attracted and she feels the same about me, too.

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    it'd be nice if it went both ways

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  • BCRanger10
    18660  
    3 months ago
    I would rather catch. I understand what you're getting at, but I'm not into the term "trophy".

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      saying would ya rather marry up or down sounded way worse, but that's pretty much what I'm asking
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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    I suppose I'd want to have the trophy because there's no way I could be the trophy lol

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    Anonymous User
    3 months ago
    I'd rather be the trophy. That tells me that I am worth something to the girl. Ideally, we'd be each others trophy, but the odds of that happening . . . yeah, not all that good.

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  • bonedust
    1165  
    3 months ago
    I'd like to be the trophy... but that doesn't usually happen for guys.

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    • 3 months ago
      yes it does bonedust.
    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      Oh good... thought I was the only one that wouldn't mind being considered the catch as a guy
 
   
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