Erica11311

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Erica11311 (Age:30 to 35)     When: 3 months ago
Category: Dating

Ok here it goes. New here. So I'm fresh dating my guy for a month. I met him and said he wants to get married. in the future. All that. So I get this odd text s saying,"I don't know right know.I asked do you want a commitment? He said IDK. Why he say that? So ,basically. he s saying," I don't want a commitment ". Am I right?...2. Valentine's day he didn't do anything for me. He said," I ll make it up" whole week passes by. I don't get him. Dating only a month. I don't smother the guy. What I do?

Update: Thank you for your comment Guys are hard to know Believe me!    3 months ago
Update: We are talking and he said slow down but would like to get to know each otheer. Still together .    3 months ago
Update: I broke up I don't know he never got back and said he would Couldn't take it. It was wrong.    2 months ago

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Premonition
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Premonition
3 months ago
He sounds Flaky an Wishy Washy, you should move on. Just a Waste of your Time.

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  • AshBrown
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    AshBrown
    3 months ago
    Sorry to break this to you, but he is not sure about you.

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    • Answerer
      2 months ago
      Now, wish you the very best..
    • Answerer
      3 months ago
      For once, I am very happy to be wrong. :) take care. My intention was not to misguide you.
    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      You where wrong I said and openeed to him I understand the. Comment by anonymous
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    3 months ago
    He is saying he doesn't know yet if you're the girl he wants to make a serious committment towards. He's only been dating you a month after all.

    He probably hates V-day, like many men. Said he'd make it up to you, but really just hopes you'll forget about it.

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  • Jager66
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    Jager66
    3 months ago
    id give it more time a month isn't very long

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  • Aercz
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    3 months ago
    He still must be pondering if you're the girl whom he sees himself marrying in the near future.

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  • aMuse
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    aMuse
    3 months ago
    He probably means he wants to get married to someone at some point years down the road and do the entire kids and white picket fence thing... I wouldn't take tongue in cheek conversation like that to mean he wants to marry you. He's just putting it out there to let you know he's shopping for a relationship, not just trying to get into your pants and get onto the next girl (which he might be doing anyway).

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  • cavmanier
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    cavmanier
    3 months ago
    Yeah it sounds like he doesn't want a girlfriend or doesn't want to rush into it. Maybe he doesn't realize how important events like Valentine's day is to women. GL to you though!

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    3 months ago
    a month and he's already talking about married? Sounds like this guy just really wants something quick and easy.. and not work for it... these things take time..

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    • Question Asker
      3 months ago
      Oh no meant ...I asked him in the future you want marriage". He said yes.. Then now he says I don't want a commitment and said I don't know.
  
   
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