Ok, I need help. I'm dating this guy who has a girlfriend, before you say it, I know its wrong , too late. The thing is sex is great, but is there love or no love? He says he has strong feelings for me and does not want to lose me. He says I'm more then just the "OTHER". He says I'm his best friend, lover etc. The only person who gets him. And the only person he can REALLY talk to. I want to love him and keep him, but then on the other hand I want him to be free so we can let everyone know we are together. HELP!. HELP!
You need to force him to decide, if you want him to make up his mind, then you have to give him an ultimatum, break up with her, or I break it off with you. Until you do that he probably will continue cheating on her with you. As hard as it may be for you, you are the one who is enabling him to keep it up, stop seeing him until he makes up his mind!
I think you really have to assess your own feelings for said guy before you try to make him give up his girlfriend. Also, because he is cheating on his girlfriend you should also ask yourself if he might be lying to you about his feelings for you and if he might cheat on you if you ever made your relationship official. A relationship entirely based on sex (no matter how good it is) is not very stable and can be destructive, especially since there is an innocent bystander (his girlfriend) who could be very hurt by this.
If you know it's wrong then stop doing it it's never too late. The only reason he says things like that to you is because he knows you would fall for it. He's a player and all he wants is sex. If he wanted to be with you THAT BAD he would have left his girlfriend long ago. Plus all you have is great sex and that's not gonna make a relationship work. Leave him alone.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be going to the movies to watch a horror movie. After that I would love to plsy sir hokey in the arcade room. Then I would just like to walk aroun somewhere and just talk while we hold hands. Of course the night would end with a kiss!!!
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
He would know that I get scared easily, and I get wrapped up in any movie I watch. He might also learn that I have a pretty complicated and messed up life. Also he might think I'm a nerd when I tell him how much I read.
(Age:36 to 45)
When: 6 months ago
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