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Interracial Dating..

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Tinkerbell_13 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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Just out of curiosity...I was just wondering how many of you would date outside your race? Color doesn't matter to me I feel as though if you like someone then you should go for it no matter what. I just want to know how everyone feels about it. What do you think? be honest.


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LostPuppy
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LostPuppy      When: 23 days ago
I've dated White, Black, Asian and Hispanic. Though it might sound superficial, each ethnic group physically has something that attracts me, so that is never the driving factor. What it boils down to is whether the chemistry is there.
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Orion
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Orion      When: 3 months ago
I'd be happy to date out side my race, why limit your opportunities if you meet someone you enjoy being with.
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kairon156
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kairon156      When: 3 months ago
I haven't done much dateing but I would date a girl of a diffrent race if she asked me or some how let me know she was into me and I thought she was cute/nice.
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Blankname1
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Blankname1      When: 3 months ago
I dated White,Black,Asian(Asian was the best out of all of them so far)

It does not matter what you are,because there's so much more outside.



Peace!
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palek
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palek      When: 3 months ago
Personally, I only date black women, as, for whatever unknown reason, I prefer their company to that of women of any other race. To me, God made black women first, and made the rest out of what was left over. Just my opinion, but I'm stickin to it.
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20Questions
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20Questions      When: 4 months ago
I have dated about four different races, for me women are women and each race has something unique to offer
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onebozo
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onebozo      When: 4 months ago
i would date a black woman or another race,i always feel black women wouldn't date a white guy
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Littletad
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Littletad      When: 4 months ago
I'm a mix, and yet I've never had an Anglo girl even remotely interested in me. I think maybe a handful of friendships but that's about it. Every other girl I've dated has been Hispanic, Black, or Asian. My point is that some races just won't date another. I don't see anything wrong at all with dating outside your race, but the world thinks different sometimes.
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danielm2009uk
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danielm2009uk      When: 4 months ago
I think it is great, although it has not worked out too well for me. I've had one relationship with a black girl which was fantastic and very different. I was suprised in the change in personality and character. I wish it had worked out more, but there were problems, long story.

I think we should all give different races a try, there is a lot to experiance and feel and because of the naughtiness to it, it makes it feel even more fantastic.
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 4 months ago
I would date outside of my race, have relations out of my race, but marriage I don't think I could pull off.
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S_O_T_I
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S_O_T_I      When: 5 months ago
Not just dating, but I married outside my race. A beautiful Thai girl. Not a mail-order bride, please! I'm a (mostly)white American, but I live and work in Asia and we met traditionally-meaning through friends. The few black girls I dated in my life were wonderful, but I would be lying if I said it wasn't tough. Not all of our families were as accepting, neither mine nor theirs. When I take my current wife back to the US next year, some members of my family will be weird about it, but they will just have to deal.
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alpinestars-2002795
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alpinestars-2002795      When: 5 months ago
I most definitely would. Although I think it'd have to be with a "somewhat." What I call, "black white girl." In explanation:

A girl that is black that carry's her self more white in personality. Not trying to come off as racist. ALthough we all know what I'm talking about. The black women that straightens her hair, dresses all professional etc. Hopefully now you get what I mean.

NO harm intended :).

Peace all :)
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Apath4 Lol - 4 months ago

DuggieFresh
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DuggieFresh      When: 5 months ago
Personally, there is enough of me for everyone ;)
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
I would date outside my race. But no black or any girl whos darker than asian.
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Question Asker Can I ask why you don't like black girls? - 5 months ago
Answerer Because people have preferences. I'm one of the people that does have a preference for a certain type of beauty, and I find that there are people who lack it. - 5 months ago
Question Asker Well I respect you for being honest. - 4 months ago

 
Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
im simply attracted to the skin color...i have dated outside my race...no offense to the white girls...but a chocolaty treat puts this guy in heat...and especially if she treats me good and tries to tease me...lol...
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djstizl
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djstizl      When: 6 months ago
I am totally open to IR dating. I have already, and would again. Cute girls with interesting personalities come in all races, so what's not to like?
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Camilus
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Camilus      When: 6 months ago
I've dated outside my race before but so far only with black women, and I'd definitely date another girl outside of my race (esp when considering most of the women of my race in THIS town)
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
you gotta be kidding me, I answered "I do not date monkeys" which literally meant I date as long as their humans (which of course excludes monkeys). and my comment was removed!

are you really that racist, moderator? SHAME ON YOU.
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
why not! More diversity! not racist or anything but ill prefer to go out with white girls
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silvrfairy6
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silvrfairy6      When: 14 days ago
Actually Timberbell the guy I like is black and this is a first for me. I would date guys on who they are and not what race they are. I like Todd and I hope we can be together :)
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EmoFlo2K11
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EmoFlo2K11      When: 3 months ago
I would. To me, a guy is still a guy and a girl is still a girl. Different ethnic backgrounds doesn't change that. It is completely stupid that people are letting that prevent them from dating someone that is of another color.
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zoeyxoxo
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zoeyxoxo      When: 3 months ago
Im black and I've only dated white guys, never gotten anywhere with a black guy. So interacial dating comes natural to me.
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XxMurphyxX Is it hard to date white guys?
cause I'm also black and attracted to white guys and I find it kinda difficult - 3 months ago
Answerer Well, where I'm from its kinda hard because the white boys here who like black girls, most of them act black and try to be gangsta so I usually hook up or go on dates with white boys who are tourists to the island not really the locals.

When you say you find it difficult... do you mean to date them or to find the ones that could be attracted to u?

When you say you find it difficult - 3 months ago

andrzeznik
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andrzeznik      When: 3 months ago
To me there's just something about not so tall white guys.
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Dollface-86
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Dollface-86      When: 3 months ago
I always date outside my race. Doesn't matter at all to me or anyone in my family. I've dated or been attracted to Puerto Ricans, Italiens, Greeks, and whoever. You like who you like and I think that love and attraction should be colorblind anyway. No biggie to me.
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Reeses-pieces777
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Reeses-pieces777      When: 3 months ago
i'm half asian/ half white
i have gone out with mostly white guys because I'm mostly asked out by white guys
i would go out with asian guys but they don't ask me out as much
i also like hispanic guys but I don't get asked out often either
but currently I have a boyfriend so lol he wouldn't want me to go out with anyone but him
im' alright with it
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krislynn
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krislynn      When: 3 months ago
to me it doesn't matter the color of a person, or where they're from. it's the actual person that counts. I'm a white girl. the guy I'm seeing is hispanic. in the past, I've only dated white boys, but recently I expanded my horizons, and am happy with that. so, no it shouldn't matter. although to some it definitely does. I was worried what his family would think of me, but they're really nice and it doesn't seem like it matters at all to them either that I'm not mexican.
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DoNt-PaNiC
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DoNt-PaNiC      When: 4 months ago
I generally would say I would stick to my color, but that's because I haven't met any good guys out of my race...if there happened to be a great guy and he's asian , black, colored, native american ...who knows? never say never...
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girlygirl2
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girlygirl2      When: 4 months ago
I would date any guy as long as he treats me with love and respect I would. Maybe its because I'm half white and half mexican, I've never seen interracial as odd its normal. Color isn't an issue it truly is what's inside that counts more.
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Juicy
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Juicy      When: 4 months ago
I'm Black and would love to date a White guy.
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sunspotmia
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sunspotmia      When: 4 months ago
I would and have my current Boyfriend is a korean model.
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vmw2008
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vmw2008      When: 5 months ago
I'm totally open to it. I'm white and I've dated white, black and hispanic. At the moment it's mostly black guys. But I'm just very much into men, regardless of color lol.
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twilightfan123
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twilightfan123      When: 5 months ago
I would. I see nothing wrong with it.

Skin colour isn't a barrier to my heart. :) lol.
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Marrryyyyy
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Marrryyyyy      When: 5 months ago
id date latino only outside my race.
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badinfluence
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badinfluence      When: 5 months ago
What surprises me is that so many people answered this anonymously! I say that if you are attracted to the person, the color of skin makes no difference. Chemistry and love knows no colors!
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Question Asker I agree =] - 5 months ago

solitaire078
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solitaire078      When: 6 months ago
I'm east Indian and I date outside my race all the time. My current boyfriend is White. But when I was in high school I dated Black, Hispanic, Indian, White, etc. The only one race that I haven't dated are Asians because the ones I know would much rather date an Asian girl or a White girl. Color has never mattered to me at all. If we connect and we have feelings for each other then that's all that matters. I don't care about what others think.
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NowJadyn
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NowJadyn      When: 6 months ago
there are no boundaries! the world is one big rainbow, and if it wants to blend to create a unified color, so be it! we'll all be the same then!
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truejbig
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truejbig      When: 6 months ago
I'm caucasian and I'm dating a hispanic; I am completely comfortable with interracial relationships.
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OhSoAmazing89
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OhSoAmazing89      When: 6 months ago
I'm totally colorblind when it comes to boys, so yep. As long as they are cute and awesome...:-)
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YesNoMaybeSo
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YesNoMaybeSo      When: 6 months ago
Yesss definitely, all my crushes are a different race than me..
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Answerer Also, I live in a really diverse city. - 6 months ago

 
Anonymous User
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Anonymous User      When: 6 months ago
I think it's okay for other people but I don't know if I would do it myself. I did it a few times in grade school but I think it's different as you get older. I think different races of guys can be cute but actually dating one? IDK. I have no problem making friends of other races but I live in a racist town so it's a no.
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gottagitwattaneed Where do you live? (state, county)? - 6 months ago
Answerer Georgia - 6 months ago

vintage_heels
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vintage_heels      When: 6 months ago
I'm completely open to dating outside of my own race. Love is colour-blind, I think.

The only complication that can arise though is cultural and religious differences (i.e. a Muslim versus a Jewish family). Some families are lenient in terms of opening up the dating/marriage pool for their children, but sometimes it's simply easier to date "your own" (I hate the notion of "us" versus "them", though).

For me personally, I've dated either Caucasian (which is what I am) or Asian guys. Most times that I've had an interest in African-Canadian or Sri Lankan guys, for instance, there were simply too many differences and the families refused to accept me, even as just a friend to their sons.

This is not a reflection of the entire group of people, though - what I'm getting at is that in SOME cases, it's just a matter of avoiding complications. However, if you feel strongly for somebody, it should not at all be inhibited by racial divisions. The truth of the matter is though, racism is still a pervasive force in our world...

So if you fall for somebody outside of your race and familial problems arise, you just have to weigh your pro's versus your con's. Each situation will vary, but ultimately, basing any relationship on the basis of race is utterly absurd.
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The_Love_Guru Correct with the cultural thing... - 6 months ago

beerY33
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beerY33      When: 6 months ago
Yep. Race definitely doesn't matter to me, my boyfriend right now is black and I'm white.
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