So I this girl and I had lunch on last Thursday with our moms. Afterwards I asked her mom if she had a boyfriend. Her mom told me no and gave me her number to call her. Obviously I called the mom back to make sure Laura her daughter was cool with this. Yes, it turns out she wanted me to have it. Friday, I texted the usual what's up how are you. Later on that night we texted each other for about an hour and then talked on the phone a little. We made plans to go hang out at her apartment or go to the museum later and I told her I would call her in the morning. In the morning ( Saturday) I texted her " Are you awake brown eyes? " her response was " Blegh, I'm awake. " I told her to call me when she was up and moving about. She said " sounds great, I need Coffee, I'll call you soon" That was the last I heard from her. I left a message later that day and she never called back. Sunday, I sent her a text about 7 at night and said " I guess you got tangled up yesterday in something. I still would like to take you out for a drink? " That's where I left it. So I am very confused and need help as what to do? I don't want to call her again and come off as desperate, but I want to know why I wasted my Saturday waiting around. So do I just move on though she seemed genuinely interested in going out with me. I am at a complete loss here HELP!.
Okkkayy well after reading this I am not sure if she's playing or is she caught up with something. You're rite you don't wanna sound desperate but yet you wanna know what's up. If you are really that curious I would suggest calling her one last time and if that still doesn't help try calling her mom again. Asking her what's up with "laura". Talk to either of them, tell them about your concern for her. And even after all this, there's still no luck, that's when you move on. I mean think about it, if se stood you up and you're still concerned and yet she doesn't understand that. She isn't worth it. You can only go so low for a person. Other then that good luck!
I think that you should move on. If a person wanted to talk or go out with you then they would make an effort to. I'm sure another woman will appreciate your generosity.
It's quite possible that she got busy doing other things. Do you have her on MSN or anything where you could just have a friendly conversation then bring up maybe going out sometime? If not. I'd wait a few days and then text her again, things happen and stuff comes up, it might not have been a blow off. But if after a few days she still doesn't reply, I'd move on. I know no one likes to hear that, but its better then waiting around and wasting your days when you could be out with friends, or someone who isn't going to blow you off.
She responded and told me she had a rough couple of days and that's all she said. I told her I was sorry to hear that and I knew a way to cheer her up, but she never responded. I guess I will wait for her to contact me and if she doesn't Oh well. - 6 months ago
Ok I misread that part. You shouldn't expect much from her though, you didn't even pull the number yourself; Her mother gave it to you. She might have just been nice for her sake. - 6 months ago
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Actually I did not ask for the number. All I did was ask her mom if she had a boyfriend and her mom told me no and it was the girl who gave her mom the number to give to me. I did not really expect to much from her, but its nice not to be blown off. - 6 months ago
Well she was rude for telling you that she would call you soon. I would just move on with your life and let her go. There could be a million other girls that are right for you but if you keep your head down thinking about this girl they will walk right past you.
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