Ok.... I am breaking up with my boyfriend because I found out he's been cheating but that's not the problem. I still do love him, but I know I deserve better than that. Well, here's the dilemma. One of my mom's friends is dating this woman who has a son who likes me. He is cool and everything but I don't know if I should date him, because I'll be 16 Saturday and he's still only 14. Plus I don't know if it's too soon to move on from my last relationship. What should I do about the new dating situation and is it too soon to move on?
You are planning to break up with your boyfriend but the question is do you still love him? If you do break up with him, will you still keep on talking to him and get back together? Don't go out with someone else if you're already having feelings for your ex or soon to be ex because it wouldn't be fair to them. They are going to be like damn she has more feelings for him then me then that's when the jealousy comes then the argument then that's when it's going to get to the point that both of ya can't take it anymore and that's when you might go back to your ex and you going too tell him that you still love him and you miss him ...
You could go on a few dates with this new guy. Let him know that your old boyfriend was cheating and you don't want a relationship just yet. He should understand. If he sticks around and wants to hang out with you still, maybe he's just the guy for you. If he doesn't want to stick around, take some time to be single.
If you wanna take time out and be single for a little bit, do it if you wanna go out with this guy, then do it or at least give him a chance, you might end up really liking him. Age shouldn't matter, lots of people get married when they are like 12 years apart.
Well if you are kinda broken up about this whole break up with your boyfriend, and you wanna speed up things and get the pain over with and behind you I guess, then yeah you should get out there and start dating other people, the sooner you move on the sooner you'll get over the exboyfriend..lol..good luck gurl.
Listen, you are very young. Date the other guy. Tell your exboyfriend who cheated on you that you are single and wish to meet new people. Try not to look at it as you choosing one over the other. Look at it as you bring some new people in your life. The boyfriend who cheated on you is also very young and immature. Unfortunately maturity comes with age and experience. What I would do is try to think ahead, at the future. Meeting new people is always a good thing. Having friends is great. Look at it that way. Not as one guy over another. Take care.
If you really loved your last boyfriend it would be to soon in your heart but not really. you know the saying *age is just a number* well if it's just a number why does it effect so much? You need to think about it long and hard and do what both your heart and head agree on.
You are at a dinner with her, have just walked into an interview or are at a first date with the best looking guy and there, your top two shirt buttons have snapped, or the pants you were wearing...
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