Talking About His Ex

After talking with you that long and not asking you out yet, it sounds like he isn't ready.
And about the annoying ex stories, he won't like it if you ask him to stop, even if you ask nicely. So, either don't ask him and just keep tolerating it, or ask him and be prepared for him to be upset about it.

On the one hand you ain't over the exes, but on the other that means he ain't over his exes, meaning he falls and stays down. Might be good for you two if he goes for ya, but there's danger, like a minor league baseball team that can lose their best player when the big leagues call. Ain't saying you aren't a big leaguer, just saying he might have his ear to the phone and his heart in the past. Seems like a tightrope for you.

Yeah he def isn't over the exes. He may be using you as a shoulder to cry on you also could be his rebound girl be very careful how emotionally detached you become long distance relationships cause problems. If he is telling you now how attractive other girls are he may see you as a friend. I would just be straight forward with him >> ask him if he wants a relationship or not tell him that's what you are ready for and if he is not on the same page with you then you need to move on with your life it may be hard to do since you like him but don't spend all your time fighting for him when you re only going to see him on the weekends anyway>>> HOPE I COULD HELP!