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Why be nice to a girl you don't like?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 10 months ago
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Why would a guy take a girl out for Valentine's Day and treat her as though he was really interested and then not call her again? I mean this guy really showed interest and was genuinely sweet.

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Superstrength79 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 10 months ago
Well are you thinking is means more because of the day? Generally I don't try to have first dates on Valentine's Day. If things don't work out, it can be more of a disappointment.

Have you contacted him at all?
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MartialArtsManiac (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
I saw this question and actually had to let it sit in the back of my brain for a little while because its off the norm. Its hard to give a straight answer without having more information about how things went that night.

How were the plans made? Did you make arrangements to talk/see each other again after that night? I think about this question and think of reasons why I'd take a girl out on valentines day and treat her right, but follow up for no other reason.

And the only thing I can think of based on the information provided is maybe he's just a good guy, but for one reason or another either isn't interested in a relationship at the moment, or simply can't manage one.

Some people would look at this as though I was saying what he was doing was a pity case or something like that, but I don't like to think of it that way. Its really hard to explain, but maybe he just thought you'd enjoy being treated well for once, and seeing what a good guy was like? Its hard for people to sometimes understand that every once and a while there will be people in your life that you will meet that will do you a great kindness, for no apparent reason and ask for nothing in return, and in some cases, you never even speak with them or see them again.

I know, it sounds mysterious, and I don't really think that to be the case, but with the information I have at the moment that's all I've got.
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