This guy I've known since about September or November we've been kind of dating because he only SEEMS to have a crush on me but I can't really tell. Is he in it for something else? We go everywhere together. He tells me so many things that say he wants to be with me but then does exactly the opposite. He has so many other girls that he talks to but he seems to like me more. Am I just imagining? He hides things from me like his text messages and he's even had sex with some of the girls I know. I really like him so much and he says the same. We spend so much time together and yet there's nothing. Am I rushing into things or does he just not seem to want me really for me?
Thats a great question, I just got done with something so similar to your problem. He seems like he messes with more than one girl at a time. And trust me you'll get hurt. I say stick with just being his friend cause there are so many guys out there that have what you are looking for. And if the guy who you are talking about makes a move on you and he isn't messing with any other girls listen to what your heart is telling you.
I mean sometimes you have to take chances so make sure he isn't a manwhore before you get involved and let him come to you cause he may just want to be your friend and you don't want to embarass yourself, and ruin your relationship.