my guy use to always pay for things when we first started going on dates. Part of it is he a gentleman. Like sometimes I've seen him pay for a soda or burger for another friend who is a girl. When I talked to her about it(shes my friend too) she says "sometimes he pays, sometimes I pay, or sometimes we split it".
well for about the past 2 weeks he hasn't been paying for my stuff as much. That's fine I'm just not sure what's up with the change. What's also weird is we made out relationship official about a week ago. Everything seems okay I'm just wondering what's happening. I know he isn't low on money and I don't want to sound rude by asking him why he isn't paying. Its not about the money but the change.naked women on the computer
perhaps he thinks that you're freeloading by never offering to pay. relationships are supposed to be about equality and taking care of each other, aren't they?
You will have to talk to him and find out but put some pre explanation in front of the question.
Tell him how you feel about him. That you noticed something little that changed which makes you concerned. You think this since he does things a certain way with his gal friends and before he was different to you but now does it the same way as for gal friends. You are fine with the change itself but want to know if there is any meaning behind it on his end. The meaning on his end is the focus of the discussion not the paying itself. Then bring up the paying and ask if it is any indication of a change of feeling on his part.
I would give it time - if it's truly bugging you - do what every relationship must and communicate your feelings to him. That's the only way it'll get out - or make a joke out of it lol - go to McDonalds and see if he pays - if he doesn't offer - say "Am I paying all the food bills around here or what?" [Alright, I'm being cheesy - but something along those lines.]
Yeah ill try to make a joke about it next time. I'm just beginning to feel more like a friend. but yeah..thanks - 5 months ago
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I apologize if I was short in my response. If you feel like a friend - just talk to him - the worse thing that could happen is you'll split up - saving yourself wasted time - and the best thing - you could start talking more and feel that he's more involved and excited to spend time with you. - 5 months ago
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